Funny about this one - along with age comes the way you listen. I mean, think about it. Older people just don't listen the same way young people do. The way you listen has everything to do with it. A lot of time, the flare ups come because someone wasn't really listening. That kind of really listening takes time, because what a lot of people do is practice (in their heads) what they're going to say back when you finish talking. That means they are not really paying close attention to the way you mean your words. Communication is based on trust. You two probably trust each other, and that is 85% of the friendship and beyond, but for communication to happen, it has to go back and forth well, which means someone has to really listen when the other one is speaking. Sometimes older people seem to have "little to say," but what is really happening inside their heads is that they are listening very closely to the way you mean your words, not to just what the words are pointing to, by definitions. Being loving enough to take the time to catch the drift of what you mean when you speak makes all the difference. If you want to get really close to that person you care about, cultivate this closer listening. Talk about it openly, and very soon you will come across as speaking when what you are really doing is listening very closely. Sent to you with lots of love from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A.
2006-06-22 03:42:32
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answered by Anonymous
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This is an incredible couple
when it comes to doing work for the community. Aquarius cares deeply about human rights and the general conditions in the world, and will work hard to improve things for everyone around her. Aquarians make wonderful team members because they are more concerned about the goal than their own egos. Although they are not particularly loud or aggressive, they can be very stubborn and independent, so two Aquarian friends need to be careful to respect each other, focus on what has to be done, and remember that sometimes it’s ok to be completely silly.
Also try www.lovecalculator.com
2006-06-22 09:40:22
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answered by Brittany 4
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Its not a smart *** answer about the age difference, but you are bound to have different views on subjects which can cause misunderstandings.
I wouldn't put too much emphasis on your star signs....live your own life, don't let your date of birth and the position of the stars affect the way you think or feel, and don't use it as an excuse if things don't work out as you want them to.
The very best of luck with your relationship.
2006-06-22 03:33:11
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answered by Anonymous
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sweetie he is an aquarian just like you. Pisces dates are 2/19-3/20. So u all will be cool.
2006-06-22 04:38:34
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answered by Anonymous
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What can you do for a man that old? He should have children your age and why would you have a man that age in the beginning. You always have stupid clashes because you still have to grow up and he already experienced a lot in life.
2006-06-22 09:56:56
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answered by MsLovebug 1
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Dont think your star sign should matter! do you love each other is the question!
No relationship is easy and everyone clashes once in a while
what you have got to ask yourself is he worth it! do you think it will work!!
2006-06-22 03:27:41
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answered by jamescuckow 2
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ever consider it's nothing to do with stars more possible the guys a middleaged man with a 19 yr old girlfriend and only has one thing he won't clash with you about???
2006-06-22 03:30:50
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answered by Anonymous
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This is will help you on what your looking for...
http://www.lovetest.com/astromate/aquarius.htm/
Jan 26,
http://www.lovetest.com/astromate/aquarius.htm/
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2006-06-22 03:59:17
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answered by Anonymous
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everyone argues - age differance aside, cause who cares anyway, if your both happy and he makes you smile, and feel warm and fuzzy inside, and obviously isn't a beast, then yeah - anything can be made to work
2006-06-22 03:27:33
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answered by moonlight_beast 1
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Your relationship with your new friend and all its characteristics, have no connection to the stars or the movements of planets....
2006-06-22 04:05:39
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answered by loligo1 6
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