What do you think when you hear this?

Question

Mother of 4 only 22 years old.
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married for 3 years with her first boyfriend.

I am not talking about myself, I am 23 married with one child (my husband is the father)

She had quads. Alot of people assume she has no self respect or just sleeps around. In truth most people expect the worst out of someone

Answer 1

It could be someone who had quadruplets.

Answer 2

Well you can have kids sometimes 9 months apart. I am 33 with 4 kids. My oldest is 12. I have an aunt that had her first baby at 14 and her second by 16.

I, being a mother of 4, feel for you. It is hard work at my age and I have settled down. But, at 22, you are just starting to understand the workings of the world and enjoy life. I also would say to wait until you had a chance grow up from being a child yourself. I am not saying that you can't or didn't enjoy doing things, that is what grandparents and babysitters are for, but it does make it harder.

I guess that what I think of it must be hard and knowing what I know, I wish every young mother would wait until they knew a little more before jumping into motherhood. But on the good side, by the time you are in your prime, your kids will be grown up and doing their own things.

Answer 3

At one level I congratulate you on finding love at such a young age and to have 4 kids is quite a blessing. However, you might have wanted to wait to have those kids, (getting married at 19 is ok) but thats a littl young to have kids when you yourself are for all intensive purposes are a child. That being said, I have seen mothers who at 18 are better than those who are 30. So if you are a truly mature individual and can take care of them I respect you and hope that you can provide the best to them...

Answer 4

I am a nurse in center city philadelphia. Girls start at 13 having kids and can average 1 a year. A 22 year old girl could have 9 pregnancies. You can be in your fifties and be a great grandmother

Answer 5

The positive side : In a case where the whole family is together.
The whole family is young, and can enjoy a lot together, and chances are the parents will see all the grand children grow up as well.
No big gaps in the children's ages, so there is never the 'odd one out'.

They should not have more children though ? , unless they are financially ok and healthy.

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with that I am a mother of 3 at 28 and I wish I could have more.

Answer 7

And Hubby?

If no Hubby around, or multiple Daddy's, what I think is a girl with low self esteem or just plain stupid.

And I feel sad for the wasted potential that will instead be diverted into struggling for a living and changing dirty diapers.

But, each to his own, chin up and find your happiness.

Answer 8

Pretty young to me a mom. Hope all is well with her and her children. I was 25 when I had my 1st, 27 for the 2nd. My son was diagnosed as autistic when he was 2, don't think I'd have been equipped for this if I was a young mom with 3 other children to care for too.

Bless you.

Answer 9

Had her first child at the age of 16

Answer 10

Same guy?

I have 3, 24 years old and 2 oldest to a diffrent guy than youngest.

Answer 11

the quad thing or she had one at 18, 19, 20 and 21.