How do I let her know that she can go out with my friends if she wants to? I know she likes the attention from them and I don't mind them giving it to her.
I don't want her to think I don't love her. I just want her to be satisfied in every way.
2006-06-22 02:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by Makinnosense 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has your wife expressed some kind of interest in this? If not, you're basically just telling her that since she likes attention its ok to be a bit of a whore. Not sure how that's going to go over.
2006-06-22 02:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satisfied in every way except going out with your friends...Your contradicting yourself, but I understand 100%, be care full because we all take something as a challenge if we are told we can not have or do that...I had a similar predicament with my wife, but I put my faith in her commitment to me, even though, I too knew she liked such attention...well her commitment wasn't as strong as I thought, so set your limits, create boundaries, its not just your wife but close friends that may consider crossing them..good luck.
2006-06-22 02:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? Sure, everybody likes attention. But you don't want to send your wife out on dates with your friends. Are you trying to get rid of her? Show her you love her in other ways. By the way, you ever hear of that old 70's song called "Backstabbers"? Some of your friends could be backstabbers.
2006-06-22 03:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay now lets start off by saying "not bragging" but I have a very nice body as well.."i work hard on that"...We have friends come over alot, as we have a big pool and play area for the kids...Even the women say things to me about wishing they looked better, the men look too, trying not to let anyone notice...But for my husdband to say Honey you can go out with them if you want...bullsh*t!! if he said that to me, I would go file for a divorce. That would show me theres no love! unstead he says hey Johnny was checking out my sweets today, I love you being my wife!
2006-06-22 03:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur id says it all , u make no sence! u say u love her but u want other men to love her too , thats just great , ur sick , if u really loved her u wouldnt want no other man even lusting after her . ud wanna smack thier face off for even looking at her body . i think ur just useing this as an excuse so later on u can say hey hunny umm i let u screw other men so now its time to let me do other chicks . ur a dirt bag , u pimp wanna be
2006-06-22 02:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are losing your sanity, kindly help yourself and see a sciologist before it get too late. Marriage is scared ans you must treat it as such. Oh maybe your wife is a whore, beacuse that's what you are thinking of turning her into
2006-06-22 02:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by kcid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would u want fro her to go out with ur friends?
2006-06-22 02:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think she isn't already doing your friends? and if you care so little, what difference would it make if when you tell her its okay to screw your friends, she gets mad? just tell her that you really don't care about your relationship and let her find someone who will care for her!!
2006-06-22 03:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋