last year on my boyfriend birthday he dissed me and i didn't see him till that night . he told me that his mother was throwing him something and it wasn't enough room.that was a lie and i want pay back let him know how it feels .oh he came in about 10;30 so he claims he was still with me just hanging with the guys thats all and me and his mother get along.
2006-06-22 02:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by shannon i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honey, he lied to you, for some reason he didn't want you around...and if your his girlfriend and he's treating you like that - somethings wrong....don't ditch him b/c two wrongs don't make a right, it will only make things worse between you two. i think you need to reevaluate your relationship and whats going on......if i'm way off - sorry, just my opinion
2006-06-22 02:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this simple question: Do you think you love this guy? If your answer is YES, then, I'll suggest you live the matter as it is. Always remember that two wrongs can never make a right. In the effort to do a "tit for tat" you may be the one to suffer for it. Even if he does, it will definitely affect your relationship. I hope you will understand my position. Try and love him the more, and someday he will come back to his senses and stop all the pranks he had been playing on you. Cheers!
2006-06-22 09:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Retaliation in relationship only leads to bitter end. If there is something you are not comfortable with it, you should confront him and sort it out. If you find out your companion is incapable of improving him/her self for the relationship, then you should end it and move on.
By committing youself to do something you know its wrong to get back at another person has no point in life, its just a waste of time and only will bring bad result.
You should re-consider your relationship with him and see if its still worth continuing down its path. It looks like you have some serious issues to deal with and should think about it before you do anything.
2006-06-22 09:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friend and have a fabulous birthday. Don't tell him where you are going. Let him wonder. Don't come home until way later than 1030. If he gets mad just say he thought it was ok when he did it. And Happy Birthday!
2006-06-22 09:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by impossible 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your relationship to work out, then don't play childish games. Yes, it was foolish of him to do that to you, but what are you going to accomplish in doing the same thing to him? I'll tell you what you'll accomplish: more ill feelings. And guess what? I bet he'll want to seek payback on you! And the cycle continues...
Unless of course one of you chooses to be the bigger person and forgive and forget.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-22 09:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are into hurting each other and playing tit for tat, why in the world are you two together?
You do not love someone and behave this way,
Besides, it juvenile and immature behavior.
So...yes its wrong
2006-06-22 09:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man keeps acting unfaithfully and we don't reciprocate, they take us for granted. Pay him back. This is the right time.
2006-06-22 09:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by kinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to say go ahead like everyone else and ditch him, but.......I would have to agree with T.W. He's hit the point on the head.
2006-06-22 09:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about pay backs it's your birthday do what you want to do, and have fun. Don't waste all day thinking about what he did.
2006-06-22 09:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by christina b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems to me that you already made your mind up, so why are you asking the question. No matter what we tell you, you are going to do what u want anyway.
2006-06-22 09:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋