I met someone on the interent and I really like him alot, but how do I know he is for real with me because he met me on the computer, how do I know he isn't Im someone else as well?
2006-06-22 02:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by geminigurl2404 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, your question has to be tackled in different ways. First of all, No you can not fall in love with a virtual being. What you are going through is not love, it is more of a cyber crush.
The issue is not is he for real or not. Yes, people do pretend, but they do so in reality as well. Your cyber chances are worse off, but that does not mean necessarily. he is a bad guy.
You are at a stage which can be called "wishful thinking", you are not in love, you are in love with the idea and the excitment.
Love is more than being attracted to someone. You have to interact with the person, get to know his real personality and conclude that both of you are compatible, love comes next.
2006-06-22 02:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by fozio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can fall in love. I met a wonderful man on the Internet and I knew before I met him in person that he was in love with me. And I was in love with him, I love him like no one I have ever loved before. When we finally met it was like magic at first. Then his job took him 450 miles away and we still talk its been a year now but its so hard because I have a kid and now other things came up. So yes you can and if you do and its true love don't let it go.
2006-06-22 03:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can fall in love with someone on the net.Just because you met someone on the internet doesn't mean you can't fall for them.Just give yourself enough time and get to know the person before you say I LOVE YOU.
2006-06-22 02:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is easy to have feelings for someone over the net. However, you do not know if it is real on the other end and therefore lies the problem.
2006-06-22 02:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by angelkiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure. i think i would have to see the person face to face. i am into looks. alot of people pretend to be someone else over the internet. they is not fear of rejection or a ture relationship. you can be whoever you want to be on here. i think most people say things here, they wouln't say to someone's face.
2006-06-22 03:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love about 2 yrs ago.....she is my soulmate....and you really can't tell....all you can do is ask questions and see if the answers change over a time.....
2006-06-22 02:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try 2 knw him n c him on cam somtimes eyes tell lt of things n other features 2.n wil u get me or not is jus matter of fate.god bless you
2006-06-22 02:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rediculous! How can there be REAL feelings towards a"picture" and/or "words", without knowing WHO THE PERSON IS, or if they are who they claim to be....
2006-06-22 02:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by svbd70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I GOTA SAY IS THAT LOVE WORKS IN THE STRANGEST WAYS...
DIFFERENT SHAPES AND TIMES.....
YES YOU CAN FALL INLOVE IN THE INTERNET....
BUT YOU CAN NOT LOOK FOR LOVE...BECUASE LOVE LOOKS FOR YOU,IT WILL FIND YOU AT THE RIGHT TIME...
2006-06-22 02:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by *sunshyne* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all da fingers r not equall Mam!!! U can go for a physcho test upon him!!! He is accurate , I know!!!
2006-06-22 02:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋