Why are people mean to me for no reason?

Question

i don't do anything wrong,i'm just really helpful,does that get annoying to you?(*sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob,sob*) people are so mean to me for no reason! this has happend to me many times,in school,on the computer,work,i am just so confused that anyone would do that?! can you give me advice on stuff like this thanx,~Zac Efron's Girl~

Thanx for the advice it really helped!

Answer 1

People always are mean for a reason, you may not see it, but there is ALWAYS a reason.

Answer 2

i have the same problem. people are mean to me for no reason. and i dont really have any friends. for the most part i stay to myself. i know i gets you down. but just remember, you are not a lone. i have always been this way, ever since i could remember, work, school, everywhere...but yeah, you just have to learn to deal w/ it the best way you can. know that God is always by your side. this will only make you stronger. and in the long run, you will get what you deserve. just keep doing good. and read up on karma if you have never heard of it. or ask someone to explain it to you. theres a move quote at the end of the passion of the christ movie...by jesus christ, it says, if the world hates you, just rememember they hated me first.....that helped me a whole lot..

Answer 3

Hey girlfriend...the honest truth is that if you're not being a *b**tch* or a snob there's usually only a couple of things it could be...A...they're jealous (or threatened) by you...B...they just palin don't know you. The thing is don't take it personally because people who hate for no reason are usually hurting inside and they can't (or won't) admit it, if you know you're a good person then don't worry about it, believe it or not...teenhood is not a terminal situation, you do outlive your teen years and things do change. Just love yourself no matter what and in that will be your reward...eventually *smile*

Answer 4

yep, to tell ya the truth girl, being too helpful can get alittle annoying! I don't know why it anoys people so, but yeah, do tone it down a bit or else people just kinda go "whoaaa ok" and think your too much, as though your "trying too hard" i guess. But helping people is still a very nice thing, just don't help too much for i'm sure other people want to know they are capable of doing something for themselves!

Answer 5

ifit makes you feel better no your not alone people are mean to me all the time for no reason I am nice and people treat me like **** I don't understand that I wish for once people would be nice to me since I can go out of my way to be nice to people I get tired of this though its mean to do that to me I guess its because they feel better about them selves at it makes them look good to look like a snob and don't care but its gets old I don't like it done to me

Answer 6

Sometimes, people may feel that they want to do things on their own, or alternatively feel they can't do their chosen task without you. Try taking a step back and only offering help when they ask for it. Don't allow these people to change you from being helpful, we need more helpful people out there so try not to let it change that fundemental factor that makes you, you.

Answer 7

well do you FART alot - are you a person that laughs so much you sound like one of those sandmen from star wars - could be you wear clothes 2sizes to small - do you cross dress - maybe youre gay and come on to them and they are not like you - do you brush youre teeth - maybe you stuff one side of youre bra too much - whatever the case is I suggest go and see a shrink after youre prozak

Answer 8

the best is to just let it rub off of you dnt take it personally maybe thaey have a bad day or what not. life's too short to worry abt that, just enjoy it, and if they are mean to you, then they are losing out

Answer 9

They say that God gives us what He knows we can handle in life, look at it that way, it means that you are stronger willed than those whom are mean to you and they will have shallow boring lives.

I am not "Religious" but I think it's nice to believe were not alone.

Answer 10

HI THEIR. well hear is one person who wishes you the best of you days and nights.
and don't listen to anyone you just get on with your life and do what you have to do for your self ok.
kepp smiling and and have a wonderful day

Answer 11

People are cruel. Sometimes they don't stop to think about other people. Don't take it to heart. Things will get better. Just hold your head up and be proud of who you are.