Bisexual people?

Question

What about your attraction toward men and women is different??

In response to the second answer to my question. I am gay. And with respect, i disagree (obviously) However, i respect your opinion and your right to express it. All i can say is judgement should be on the merit of charcter, not orrientation. Alot can be gained through tollerance my friend.

Answer 1

If I am attracted to, or in love with a person, whether it be for looks, or personality or both. I am only attracted to that individual person and it makes absolutely no difference to me whether they are male or female. Call it greedy if ya like, I call it evolution!!

Answer 2

Honestly, there is no difference for me.... oh wait, I just thought of one!

With guys it's about looks. I'm not being shallow, i've been in relationships with unnattractive men, but I am most attracted to very good looking guys. Otherwise, i'm generally not very into them - i've yet to meet a guy with a stunning personality, so they might as well have a stunning body.

With a woman, I love their bodies outside of their personality. I find them physically attractive BECAUSE of their personalities - I wouldn't be turned on by a woman if she wasn't nice. Similarly, I can be extremely attracted to and aroused by a less attractive woman because she has a fantastic personality.

Answer 3

I am bisexual and I have to say my attraction towards women is stronger than my attraction towards men. I just find a women more sexually exciting than a man - simple biology I guess. I'm not sure why it's different - just is.

Answer 4

I don't know about anyone else, but for me.....
I'm mostly sexually attracted to females, but love being the "reciever" with guys.
It's intensely gratifying when a guy comes in me. Since a guy can't fake orgasms, when ge goes, you know he REALLY enjoyed himself. I hope it don't sound too kinky, but the truth is, it's a major turn on when a guy uses me like he would a sex toy. With women, it's a 2 way street. Giving AND taking pleasrue

Answer 5

My attraction towards guys is based purely upon their looks. A gay guy will think of this as being intolerant and narrow minded, but I can't help this. Maybe my dual attraction towards females helps me get round this?

My attraction towards females has a bias towards looks, but personality is more likely to broaden my range slightly with females than it would with males.

Answer 6

Nothing really. I like the same thing in a girl as I do in a guy, for the most part. When I look at a potential partner I don't look at their gender, I look at who they are. Their personality, whether I find them attractive, that kind of thing.

Answer 7

For men read my answer to a previous question

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuxZgXREclkdl69ogYd8z3ggBgx.?qid=1006052638677

For women:

I love their perception/outlook, their emotional range, their (perceived) submissiveness, their strengths, their desires, their chattiness, their resilience and the way they expand my outlook on life; just by the different ways they approach everything.

Aside from the obvious physical differences, my preferences for both lean toward Mediterranean or Scandinavian types.

Answer 8

Hey if you like what your looking at then why the hell should it matter what is between their legs i am a girl and a straight girl at that but if i see a female that catches my eye i have thoughts of being with her sexually If i ever get the opportunity to be with a girl im attracted to then hell im all on that sh!t.

Answer 9

Well I have my attraction to my wife and in that I am the strong one she is the soft one and it is nice to cuddle up with a soft body beside you. Our love making is soft and tender and more about meeting her emotional needs to get that sexual fulfillment of being a man. Don't get me wrong the orgasm is incredible but there is more of an emotional component to it. With a man it is more raw and less gentle it is more about the physical aspect of meeting his needs he is hard and strong and you don't have to worry about hurting him as much as you do with a woman he can take more strength more grinding. And afterward when you cuddle with a man you can hold him tighter and be more relaxed about the physical aspect of it. You don't have to worry is my weight too much for him to hold on his body and is he comfortable. Because he is strong enough to move beneath me to get more comfortable. Also it is about masculinity it is not as emotional except that I just got my buddy off and he really enjoyed it and that makes me feel good. I don't have to worry about did I do it well enough because as you know men cant really hide weather they enjoyed themselves or not and you don’t have to guess with a man. His enjoyment is all over his face and all over his stomach and mixing with yours too.
So as you see it is two sides of the same coin with a woman I am attracted to the softness of her femininity because it is different from my rough masculine nature. With a man I am attracted to his rough masculine exterior and his animalistic quality of his physical nature. Sex with a man is more raw and physical. Sex with a woman is more about the love and the emotions culminating in a physical release.

Answer 10

I honestly can't tell you what the difference in attraction is. I fall for men and women for their personalitys and looks, and each one is different.