the situation is like this :
I had read my husband's myspace messages, He emailed one of his co worker (who became a model) He told me that before we get married, He really like this girl so much. He tried to get that girl attention but since he wasnt her type of guy, she dont care.. I know thats past and i dont care about that. Im still glad he shared those moments to me.
He emailed her just yesterday like this " I hope you get the job. you'll make a very beautiful model. I have always thought that. good luck and hope to you see you in playboy I mean on the cat walk or whatever you models walk on".. I felt insulted being a wife..anyone out there that can tell me I am just jealous or what? does he mean anything other than that msg? am I just over reacting again? He is christian and I think thats not a christian way to say something. ..btw, Im hurt anyhow..yOur answer will be appreciated..thank you all..
2006-06-22 00:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By thw way she is over 2000 miles away.
2006-06-22 01:51:14 · update #1
The message he wrote should not have upset you. It was very normal for a guy (even a married one) to say to a former acquaintance. The better question is why were you reading his mail? Even a married man needs his privacy, and you have invaded it. If he is a caring husband, and good to you, then give him a little privacy and don't be so insecure. If he is not a caring husband, or is not good to you, then you should get him out of your life........but still not read his mail. Just my humble opinion, though, and you must do what feels right for you.
2006-06-28 19:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men for some reason dont take no very well,it probably males him feel insecure that he is not her type.On the other hand he married what he wanted,he should be happy and leave the past in the past.Try talking to him about your feelings and tell him your praying that god shows him the error of his ways.Ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot abd you were e mailing guys.Good luck will remember you in my prayers.
2006-06-22 07:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very right to feel insulted!
Tell him what you saw. And it hurt you! What he is doing by emailing her or leaving messages is wrong. It is not being true to you and your marriage. But it is unlikely she is just reading the messages and blowing him off. But as a Christian he should not be reading porno...Playboy or anything in that line. It compromises woman and Christains are to have respect for woman..
2006-06-22 07:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Pj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He started fine but telling her about playboy was a little bit odd. Check that out, it's not like you would joke with a guy friend that happens to be a model that you want to see him naked in a magazine.
2006-06-22 07:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u must b jealous, any wife will b! its ok to admire another woman but not too much, I mean ur husbnd is still hoping that someday his former crush will notice him? and in a playboy magazine? u know, its not to make ur relationship sour but f u let ur husbnd do that, tym will come that he will reject u, but in a positive thinking, f he really loves u then in the end u will b happy, ur meant to each other!!
2006-06-22 07:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Neveill Cathy Sander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he meant anything serious than what he just said, please trust him, once he married you then you are the woman he Love and will ever Loved. Am happy he is christian, the christian life teaches us a lot of things. Just Trust him and he will Love you forever, remember to pray for him everyday OK, it really helps.
2006-06-22 07:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a friendly good luck note. Im a christian to and I think you might be over reacting.
2006-06-22 07:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal for you to feel that way. you felt insulted and jealous, too for what he did. but on what you wrote for what he emailed to her, if you read it again and again, i don't think there's more than anything else he means about his email, it's just a formal compliment to a co-worker but still better for you to tell him what you feel about it and if he cares about your feelings, he must stop contacting that girl again.
2006-06-22 07:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the religion has to do anything with your hubby's email??
Why do u people have to bring religion into everything???
U mean christians are not supposed to wish anyone good????
Oh my God..your kind make me sick
2006-06-22 07:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a bf lyk that it means wot they want it to mean but y dont u talk to him about it then u might get an answer he might have bin abit sopportive of her u no give her a bit confidence u never no but if it worrys u then talk to him hell tell u
2006-06-22 07:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋