What should I do about creepy teacher?

Question

Ten years ago, when I was 15 I went on a trip organised through my church. The trip leader was a teacher from a school i did not attend he was mean and a bit of a control freak. I was in a room with 2 friends, both also 15(we are all female). One morning we were getting dressed to go down for breakfast, when Mr Creepy comes into our room without knocking and beginns to give us a lecture on being late for breakfast and having a messy room. At the time I told him to leave but he kept making excuses to stay until told him to get out. All three of us girls were not dressed and were wearing our underwear. Although we held t-shirts and blankets over our selves when he came in.

So my question is, should i report this, it was 10 years ago and i am very uncertain about what to do.

Answer 1

If u report him now after all these years,, you will be asked why waiting all this time,, in addition,, you may be accused that there is something bad between you and him and you try to revenge from him,, I think there is something else you hide and did not say it,,,, right??

Answer 2

The best thing to do is to report it. He could have just started stuff like that when you were younger. He could have moved on to doing other things now. You have to remember that kids still have some trouble telling when someone hurts them. If you report it, maybe someone will look into it and find that he is doing things that he shouldn't be doing to others. Maybe, because you do tell, you will save some young girl from a terrible nightmare.

I would rather someone say something and get a person checked out, rather then not say anything at all and that person hurt someone. It must bother you, even now, if you are even thinking of turning him in.

Answer 3

I think you're out of time now as he did not actually do anything however it was inappropriate behaviour and he needs to be checked to make sure he is not still acting in this way.
If possible can one of the other girls back you in this, it will be best if you have someone with you who was there.
At the very least he will be checked because a male should not be in a room with young girls alone specially when they are in a state of undress

Answer 4

if it was so long ago and your still thinking about it then yes report it, it may not go anywhere, meaning he may not be prosecuted because it will be so hard to prove.
this has had a terrible affect on you that you've not been able to let go of.
do what ever it takes to make you feel better so you can get on with your life.
have you got a local victim support that you can contact for advice and someone to talk to?
be brave sweetheart, report it but be prepared for it not to be processed as a full complaint in court.

Answer 5

definite. the first became in sixth grade, we had a sub for some days and he became in his 50'sI imagine, and he became continuously flirting with females (He became truly old looking too - white hair, mustache, sweater vests, etc.) and he became continuously asking human beings the position they lived and it they needed a holiday homestead because it really is curiously what they did at his old college the position he used to expose o.O and each and each body became complaining to the commonplace and their moms and dads and he became finally in no way allowed to come back decrease back to the school because human beings even if he turned right into a pedo. The very last one (to this point is this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, my technology instructor. he's had affairs with would of the different lady instructors and he's divorced and is continuously observing me and makes me uncomfortable :/

Answer 6

I understand that you are still freaked out about this incident and my guess is that you regret for not reporting it in the first place. What has happened in your life to relive this? There are support groups around that could help you explore your options in what to do. I wish you good luck.

Answer 7

Maybe speak in confidence to his present head teacher. If it turns out this was a one off mistake all good and well. But if it is more sinister, then the head will have suspicions and your input may be helpful. I don't think it warrants you going straight to police. But this way you won't be wondering.

Answer 8

Looks like you are a little out of time but if you think you should do it for the safety of other girls do it. Better late than never.

Answer 9

Yeah, either report it as he may still be doing this and it might end up going further with some other poor innocent or find him, kick him as hard as you can in the knackers and then report him! Dirty perv.

Answer 10

in a way yes and no because for 1 it was 10 years ago but then that is diturbing i can see why u r confused i would .