emotionly. have you been hurt really bad that its an effort to get out of bed?
did the hurting kill you?
Who hurt you?did they mean to? wat did they do?
Do you forgive them?
2006-06-21 23:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by Nita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes its been 6 months and i cant stop thinking about anything but the lies and betrayal a friend hurt me with --- they say time heals all wounds ---how much longer
2006-06-22 05:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this guy chasing me about 10 yrs ago and we dated for a while, the sex was fantastic so were the flowers and all the other stuff, i really had my heart set on this guy as a husband , but he dumped me cause i was a rebound and he married someone else 6 months later , i didn't want to get out of bed for a long time , i was so depressed, i would wake up and the first thing i would think of was him and i would just cry all the time, doctor put me on anti depressants but they made me feel weird so i stopped taking them sand started to get on with life. Yes i forgive him , never really hated him it was just teh way things were... we were not meant to be , but it took me a very long time to get over him completly and i stayed away from guys until i was totally over him ,cause i didn't want to do to anyone else what he did to me .
2006-06-22 06:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been so hurt emotionally when the first time I was in love with my exboyfriend of 2 years. He cheated on me with another asian girl and I was devistated because I truely loved him so much and it hurt so much what kind of emotional pain he put me in. The hurt did kill me so, my heart felt like it was being stabbed and it hurt more than anything I have ever felt in my life. The things that he used to do to me to put me in such a great emotional pain for 6 months was he would still continuously call me while he was cheating on me with the girl which I knew about, he would rub it in my face and tell me everything they did, he would be going out with her and me at the same time (but at the time I loved him so much I couldn't let him go), and he would laugh at me when I would cry and hang up on me. It hurt alot, and I wish I never wen't through that. Yes I forgave him at the time cause I loved him, but I really wish I let go of him when he did that to me because I left him in a very harsh way.
2006-06-22 06:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I am very sensitive and one year ago I was hurt very badly by one guy from my school.I loved him very much but he just played with my feelings.I cried a lot for him.Because of him I understood and stoped crying and now I never let the others to hurt me I don't believe the guys at all.And about the hate, I can't hate him because I loved him more then myself, in one way maybe I forgive him because the circumstances were like that so we couldn't be together, but I am angry at him and I always will be.
2006-06-22 06:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive been hurt so bad i didnt want to get up in the morning. i literally didnt feel like myself. i fell into a depression for months. i cried every day, but eventually i fell out of it and moved on with my life. my best friend at the time hurt me really bad. i made the mistake of telling her how i felt about her( i was in love with her for 3 years) What's worse is, me telling her how i felt ruined our friendship( it wasnt the greatest anyway) I miss her so much but hey i guess things werent meant to be with us. she cant accept the fact that im gay
2006-06-22 09:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but just a little bit.
here's the story:
i went out of the library then i went to the classroom and i saw my 2 best friends taking the audition for the talent show without me. i was mad because i was practicing with them but they didn't even tell me they're gonna take the audition for talent show on that day. so i was totally mad.
but from that day on, i practiced with them and made it to the audition then we went to the talent show.
2006-06-22 06:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by pauline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, a terrible experience. more than once. until I fed up, then decided to MOVE ON... forgive and forget, always the best recipe to unleashed the chain.
2006-06-22 06:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by hsmnt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till now no one hurted me , but its too tough any one hurted means , the hurting happend more between true love
2006-06-22 07:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by vijay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my childhood friend got jealous of me coz i got more marks, got an admirer....and was best friends with her crush....she called me cheap..wrote hatemails(still does) and says she's ditching me...she calld me a backstabber....god she made me feel so low but now i dont give a damn to her....she got 4% less than me in boards and i topped.....so she got her payback....almost every1 hates her now...
2006-06-22 06:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by sakura avalon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i broke up wit my ex it was that bad i was having anxiety attacks. she did mean it. she cheated on me , ill never forgive her
2006-06-22 06:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by mattman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋