and it would be my first time
2006-06-21 23:06:25 · 12 answers · asked by milan t 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
if you all are making out and she sticks her hand down your pants, starts to undress you or doesnt stop you if you try to touch her. or just come out and ask, are you ready to have sex? I wish someone would have asked me. my first boyfriend in high school assumed i wasnt a virgin cuz he lost his virginity at some ridiculous age but i felt ackward having to stop him and tell him im not ready to go all the way. just say "i dont want to make you feel uncomfortable so just tell me if you want me to stop"
2006-06-21 23:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by uiucsmith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! according to your last question, she's 11!
Wait until she's 18, or at least old enough to make that kind of decision.
She's barely out of elementary school, she doesn't know what she wants, and if you're in high school or older, then you really should wait, that isn't just rape, it's child molestation!
That's just sick that you even have to ask.
If you think she's worth it, wait it out. Otherwise, think about it this way, you screw around and get her pregnant, IF you manage to avoid jail, you will have 2 children to come home to instead of just one.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!
There are so many reasons that it is wrong. I hope you stop thinking with your crotch and use common sense.
2006-06-22 06:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by memberofdisfunctionalsociety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well read her body lanuage but also don't push it either cause trust me it won't be as good unless it mean something to you and you care about her! with my last g/f even though it wasn't my 1st time I still pushed it with her and it wasn't as special as I would have like it to have been and she toll me time and time again that she only had sex with me so soon to make me happy and I regert making her feel that way! :(
2006-06-22 06:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, you also have to be able to predict whether she will still agree that she wanted to have sex, after she has had it.
Because, with hindsight, she might change her mind.
2006-06-22 06:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read her body language man!
2006-06-22 06:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just watch for the body languege dude
2006-06-22 06:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by christian69_tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, you'll know when the time is right. Make sure you use protection,
2006-06-22 06:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your girl, you should know her gestures.
when you're alone, she's extra sweet, blushing and pressing her boobies on you.
of course, you have to ask her.
2006-06-22 06:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by cyberjake2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't push you away when you're kissing her --- keep going until she does.
2006-06-22 06:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she starts to strip, laying down and spreading her legs....
2006-06-22 06:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by jims_bong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋