i am with the man of my dreams.how ever day before i heard somethings that has really got me stress.he said the things that i heard is not ture.and the person that told me said it is ture.i love him and trust him. but i am afraid at the same time.we are having a baby.this thing has me where i cannot sleep.who should i belive him.are the person that told me.help me please.
2006-06-21 21:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think about why the person told you whatever it was they told you?
Do they even like your husband?
Are they a trouble maker?
Have they always not liked your husband?
Do you truly deep down trust your husband 100%
And lastly, listen to what your gut feeling is telling you it rare is wrong, if your having doubts, then maybe ask for more detailed information.
2006-06-21 21:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you heard... it good to trust your man but there are times when you just can not ignore what you heard if its of concerns! Its always good to ask those people where they learn about it and try to follow up and also ask your man to see what is going on!
People just do not talk till they saw something or heard something from somewhere.... and not always is this the case where they are trust, they can be wrong but its always good to do your own research.
2006-06-22 04:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you could dismiss what you have heard and believe you rman but be sure that if you hear it again what ever it is you heard that you take action to find out if it is true like follow up with people it involves,now that your pregannt you cant afford to much stress but dont let that overcloud your sense of good judgement either,when someone does the wrong thing by you then it is time to leave,but you can give the benefit of the doubt this one time
2006-06-22 04:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to stop long enough to study the situation very thouroughly....wheres he spending his time especially around the time in question, does he hang in the streets?? does he have alot of buddys? does he come home late? does he show you respect? ask your self these kind of questions and let your heart lead you to happiness, its your first instincts most the time but dont rush or misunderstand your feelings becuz love can and is tricky ya know so take ya time and be patient time always tells it all !!! good luck! girl power!
2006-06-22 04:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by lalisalaloca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tricky question .. I always try to act on things i see for myself rather then what ppl tell me.. alot of ppl are haters and might not want to see you guys happy .. you didnt really say what u heard so im not sure what to say ...its always good to have some kinda proof or something b4 accussing .. maybe try confronted them both together ! you should know whos lieing then ?? I always try to stand by my man ..and if somethings wrong maybe you can fix it .
2006-06-22 04:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by heartbrokenthensum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trusted him you wouldn't be asking this question. I don't know what you heard so I can't give you my personal opinion.
2006-06-22 04:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should believe in spell checking your posts. That would make things easier to understand.
2006-06-22 04:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...your words very confusing me
Second...I can't help since i don't understand exactly what is happening.
2006-06-22 04:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋