Okay, so I'm straight. I am. But I went through this phase of about a year where I was OBSESSED and nearly IN LOVE with the most adorable little red-head punk rock girl. And yeah, everyone thought I was lesbian, or at least bisexual, but I swore up and down that I wasn't because I never had sexual thoughts about her, I just wanted to kiss her and cuddle with her and know that she was my baby (guys, you may not understand a non-sexual attraction, haha). And I waited for her for a year, during which both of us got boyfriends (she stayed with hers for nine months while I was only with mine for two before I realized I was too interested in her for anyone else). But in the end, she realized that she couldn't keep me waiting forever. So she asked me out. And you know what, I was the one who broke it off after two months. We weren't as close as I had wanted to be, you know? It didn't feel right. And now she's chasing after me. So to avoid putting her through my previous pain, what can I do?
2006-06-21 21:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by The Lady of Shallot 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be blunt, come right out with it and tell her. Okay, she won't like what she's hearing - and it could be the end of a beautiful friendship - but, at least, she'll know where she stands and, so, to avoid pursuing a non-starter (much as you must have felt when you waited on her?).
2006-06-22 04:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out............sorry for the obvious pun........that you are not interested........... you need 2 ppl to make a relationship..........or even a 1 night stand for that matter.........so, you must simply tell her that your feelings have changes. I'm sure she's gone thru the same things in her life... feelings changing, so she will understand. Now, if only I could understand how you can say you're not bi...........but u wanted to kiss and cuddle with her.......... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
2006-06-22 04:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Let her know that you thought you loved her, but you are really only attracted to men. That may hurt her, but should make her stop chasing after you. Good luck.
2006-06-22 04:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure since I am not female or at all homosexual, but I can tell you that that sounds HOT!!!
2006-06-22 04:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by asking shorter questions
2006-06-22 04:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Boo Boo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well find a new b/f or whatever trips your trigger
2006-06-22 04:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know.
2006-06-22 04:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋