i think he is missing something which after 10yrs in the relationship i can never give.i imagine he might try looking for similar ladies in real life.how best can i deal with this situation?
2006-06-21 21:17:30 · 18 answers · asked by esther m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will he find a Jenna Jameson at work and have wild raunchy sex with her?
I don't think he will.
Is he looking for some spice in your sex life?
I think he is.
Pornography is healthy (in my humble opinion). It's a natural human curiosity to watch, read, or listen to erotica. If you love him, you would not judge him for watching pornography. It may even be a good idea to add something new to your sex life. Let him know that you are still as desirable as the first time he'd seen you naked.
2006-06-21 21:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by veinposeur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 14:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the reason why your hubby would be spending time watching porn is because he might be missing the ol' fun in his sex life with you. The heat and the excitement might have gone off... My suggestion would be:
1. Talk to your husband as to why is he more interested in watching porn than watching you.
2. Give him what he wants when you are making love with him..
This will surely take his mind off the porn slowly and one fine day he would stop watching porn altogather.
2006-06-21 21:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Piyush Bhatnagar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is watching porn, that is what he wants, you know the answer to this question......... Most men want a lady on the street and a whore in the bedroom, ever hear that before? Yes after ten years you need to spice up life in the bedroom.......... good luck
2006-06-28 11:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out my b/f was looking @ porn. So i looked at what he did and found out what really turned him on. Than I made our sex life into a porn.. Turns out I just needed the extra spice!
If that doesn't work see a marriage conselour and get some help
2006-06-21 21:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by ashez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously there is not something enough that you can give him so he goes to porn,some men are addicted tot his and thats what your husbund is doing,he is mentally cheating on you by wathcing porn all the time,if he was really happe with you and loved you he wouldnt do this,tell him to get off his assss and stop and watch you in his spare time or else you will leave him
2006-06-21 21:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be menopausal??? Why dont you put on a personal show for him to spice things up with candles music and the works
2006-06-21 21:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sex with your husband like a porn star . Try to behave and dress up with him like a porn star . When he get real life pleasure from you , he do not see porn much.
2006-06-21 21:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bluelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to do to himself what the lady in porn videos does. Ask his sexual expectation from you and try to met them.
2006-06-21 22:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by RedFerrari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an actual addiction to porn, its not good sign he probably had this since childhood. you should talk to him about this cause thats weird if hes jerking off instead of screwing you :(
2006-06-21 21:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋