so i plan to get married sometime within the next 10 years and there is no way i am letting my future ex-wife take all my money. so my question for you ladies is would you sign a prenubtual agreement before you get married?
2006-06-21 21:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would never sign one.nor would I expect the one I marry to sign one, either.
2006-06-21 21:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by tavgirl1954 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prenuptual agrrements are so last millenia.
If you are so wealthy that you're just a magnet for trash like the Anna Nicole Smiths of the world...then you can easily hide your money.
If you're not wealthy, but want to preserve your secret and private savings...give it all to a family member if the relationship goes down the tubes.
Remember divorce court is an adversarial business proposition.
Both lawyers will get rich at your expense...and they will wait it out until one of the two of you finally breaks and signs...and gives in to the proposition on the table.
I will add this...
the mindset that you go in to a relationship with...is the direction your relationship will go. Jennifer Lopez still doesn't get the respect and love she deserves because of her ridiculous demands through her prenups.
Let it go...give 100% and expect nothing in return and you will be open for a better - far more fulfilling - relationship.
2006-06-21 21:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure that she is going to be your EX WIFE then why are you going to marry her,look a better way to this is dfont ask her for a prenup that is really mis trusting her why would you marry someone you dont trust,if you really are that conrened then open another accdcount under your name with a totally different bank and bank most of the money your concerned about she wont know no one needs to know,but if she is going to be your wife think twice is she really your one true love your soal mate? because if she were then you would not have to ask this question in the first place,marriage is not a game dont waste your time with someon you might only half trust or dont truely love
2006-06-21 21:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but surely there is some provision there legally for wealth that was created before the marriage.
And what kind of attitude is that to go into a marriage with, that it's doomed to end?
Why don't you just make sure you marry the right one in the first place??
2006-06-21 21:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, unless my plans were to marry him for his money. But thats not the way Iam. In this time and age I think that would be a good idea.
2006-06-22 01:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing there fore I can give nothing! If he wanted me to I wouldn't get married cause isn't thinking about a divorce before marriage a bad thing? Now if he is a millonaire I would to put his mind at ease to know I love him and not his money.
2006-06-21 21:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even get married if you know shes gonna be your "ex wife" ??
I would just keep your money and your last name..
you'd save $$ on divorce lawyers in the end!
2006-06-21 21:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by ashez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i said i would and i would have had he wanted me too , i wanted him never his money . Yet its alarming to think any woman would agree to this for you , if your already thinking she will be an ex wife .
2006-06-21 22:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Sounds like you don't really like her.
2006-06-21 21:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by 30somethingfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋