1. My mom got Leukemia
2. My brother Ran away
3. I have to decide which of the two people I love the most (parents) to live with
4. My Girlfriend cheated on me
5. I feel like no one really loves me
2006-06-21 20:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by crazyloverboyman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all of us have hard times in our lives, some more than others, you just have to believe that things will get better. i know it felt like everything was against me too, my mom left my dad after 20 years of marriage, my husband cheated on me, i went thru a divorce, my dad had 2 heart attacks, my husband has anxiety really bad and both my kids have high functioning autism, i'm behind on all of our bills because my husband lost his job, but i still believe that everything will change for the better, you have to have hope or you'll end up with nothing.
2006-06-21 20:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard and difficult time makes one perfect. Even Gold has to be passed through fire.After severe tests only gold has value for which the whole world is running. In Hindu mythology there is a theory of Karma which says that for bad done consciously or unconsciously one has to suffer. These suffering might be of the previous life... anyways let us not indulge ourselves into the high theories.
Many people around us has many problems. Do not focus the problems you are facing as it will drive you pessimist and fearful. Look at the opportunities to overcome these difficult situation
Be contented what you have instead of anticipating other fears and pains
Pain is the fuel of passion-it energises us with an intensity to change that we do not normally possess
Difficulties in life do not come to destroy you, but to help you to realise your hidden potentiality and power.
Your approach should be... let difficulty know that you are difficult.
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2006-06-22 04:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dipesh Sheth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even when it seems like noone is there, there are plenty who've got your back.
one of my fav quotes: "Although hitting rock bottom isn't a fun place to be, at least it's an easy foundation to have"
I feel for ya on #4, I'm sure that doubles up the rest.
Mandy
2006-06-22 03:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot on your plate. Hang in there. Life really sucks sometimes but what won't break you, will make you stronger and truely build's character. Better to live in the real world than to live in a bubble and eventually have it go pop!
2006-06-22 03:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom got lukemia too and died when i was 7, too. dad ran away when i was 2. never had a dad. have lived with aunt and uncle. but couldn't get along with aunt. now i live with grandparents. and they never wanna go out and do anything. im always bored at home. i been there. if you believe, prey to god. he loves you and will for give you if you did anything bad. im here for you. god bless you too like the other guy said.(and i mean it.) you must really be sad to have all this happen to you.
2006-06-22 03:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by aarlover13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is cruel to many people in different ways. I believe its because the world has too much evil in it.
We have to try to learn about ourselves and other people through our experiences. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
I survived the death of my father, a bad car accident, and being drugged, raped, and nearly killed in less than two years time.
God loves us and wants to help us get through the hard times. We have to remember to ask for His help.
2006-06-22 04:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by compendious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U still have GOD to thank HIM coz u're still alive. All that happen to you are just a 'test' to see how you appreciate your life.
God Bless You.
2006-06-22 03:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by azzrie007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if life were easy it would be boring sorry about your luck at the moment but that is all it is. its a moment it'll get better.
2006-06-22 04:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by elman411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋