am too fat. and not in a relationship. do you think i need to trim down just to have a boyfriend.
2006-06-21 20:36:54 · 15 answers · asked by mineater_68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Being Sexy, Pretty,Cute or having a nice personalities, nice smile, nice shape, nice hair or nice hands, what ever it maybe, are all traits that attract men to women or vice verse. If you wanna lose weight, you only do it for your-self and no one else. Because what really matters is you and losing weight has to be something you want. Even women who have the best shaped bodies don't have a man because for some men looks are not the only thing that matters.
The reason you may not have a boyfriend is because of timing. God has set times when he wants you to enjoy the pleasures of things in life and your time to enjoy a b/f will come its just not now. You just have to be patient and wait. The day will come when you'll have a boyfriend and then you'll be like I can't stand his a**.
2006-06-21 20:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sexy
but 2 be attractive u have 2 trim down
2006-06-22 03:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brunette has it right. There are some guys out there who are into "BBW's". So it's not the point.
The point is that being how you are currently does not make you comfortable, you lack self-confidence, therefore, you have difficulties to seduce people.
Losing weight will very likely get you back some confidence, moreover it's good for your health, overweight tires your heart (the muscle) and might cause other health problems.
So do it for yourself.
2006-06-22 03:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy is all about your attitude. Like yourself, feel confident and be confident, thats all it takes.
Just think of all the actors that you think are sexy as apposed to attractive or hot. Take Nicholas Cage for example, he's sexy, but I wouldnt say he is attractive.
2006-06-22 04:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! U gotta work with what you have...the guy has to accept you for who you are and if they can't then forget them! Besides i'm pretty sure you want a guy that likes you for you and not just for what you look like, in the long run that's all that matters any ways...when your old and grey the looks will fade but what's on the inside will always remain...
2006-06-22 03:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey, you don't need to slim down for a guy, do it for yourself and your health..I know a lot of larger women with great relationships but what I want to tell you is to do it for your own good..Play sports, eat well and I'm sure you will be in shape :)
Best wishes
2006-06-22 03:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Larissa_Antipov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the older you get you reliaze that a relationship is not built on physical attraction but on personality. Just be yourself and be real and never give up your identity for another persn.
2006-06-22 03:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in shape is good for your health. go to a dietician if you think that you are out of shape. shape your eyebrows, have a hair cut, have smooth legs and arms and i think you will look sexy. men really find intelligent women sexy. so study hard, look healthy, exersise, be happy and be yourself. men will be coming to you in crowds.
2006-06-22 03:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in the eye of the beholder....my friend just had a baby and gaind 40 pounds but today she met a guy she never thought that would happen
u should try meeting guys on myspace i know alot of insecure people who have met great guys on there
good luck
2006-06-22 03:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great personality is what counts. If you are overweight or not exercising, get in shape for your health, not for a guy. Guys will ask you out if they see a confident, caring person.
2006-06-22 03:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by 30somethingfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋