I think the girls in this party are very few and I afraide but I said to my bf that I afraid to come.he just laught and said me that I shouldnt afraid.what should I DO???
2006-06-21 19:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and I am 16.he is 18
2006-06-21 19:44:23 · update #1
Never let anyone intimidate you into doing something you don't want to do. Love yourself enough to respect yourself that you do not have to do something just because someone tells you to do it or laugh at you then he is not that much of boyfriend if he does not care how you feel. Tell him I do not feel comfortable about going if I knew more people it would be another story. Lets go to a movie, a drive, bowling or out to eat or cook him a romantic meal instead. Stand your ground no matter what you will come of the smarter one. Change his mind get him to do what you want instead. Happens everyday that women changes a mans mind.
2006-06-21 19:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sonresia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the answer depends on the nature of your boy friend and the country in which you are living.presuming that, you are living in underdeveloped country, before attending that party you must prepare your self for the worst as there are few girls. you simply tell your bf that you could not attend the party due to some reason.if you live in a developed country like the USA, you need not worry as you possess a pistol to save you
2006-06-21 20:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY,If your afraid and theres only a few girls going,I would stay home....Theres something that isn't right about this whole thing....And it's a privite party to....Something stinks big time!!!!!!! Just how long have you know your B.F.?? Do you know alot about him?? I'm even getting scared for you.now...Sweety be safe on this one,Stay home,Okay!!!!
Clowmy
2006-06-21 19:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your feelings. If you don't want to go, then don't go. If your bf loves you he will respect it and really listen to what you have to say. if he only laughs then maybe its time for another kind of party with another bf.
2006-06-21 19:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go if you are worried. You have reason to be afraid. Do what you think is smart. There could be some problems and he may want to do things you may not want to do.
2006-06-21 19:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usualy there are more boys to girls.. or girls to boys... is hard to match them
;P
if u trust him, and know he loves u, and he won't put u trough nothing bad...
then go...
again..
u didn't said ur age? and his age..
but if ur over 16..
just go..
and pe carefull.. u know.. fear is the best to let us know when something is not right...
2006-06-21 19:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by themikevlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick wiht ur gut girl stay home watch some tv or go out with ur girls just don't go
2006-06-21 19:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by hot italian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last time someone said private party to me it turned out to just be me and him. be careful. how well do you know him??
2006-06-21 19:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by trusty crusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
if its a private party..hmm
go with ur instincts
2006-06-21 19:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go! the only thing you have to lose is him. if your not there for him to direct his attention to, then it might go somewhere else(some slut at the party).
2006-06-21 19:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by jazzmen4u28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋