like dating your ex-boyfriend whom they never liked before, having a friend know about this and acting like they new nothing about it !!!!
2006-06-21 19:10:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they were never friends sweety, A true friend is someone who will nver do this to you. You will see the real ones from the fake ones as you get older
2006-06-21 19:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by skimosmom1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! it isn't ok. First, u'll be breaking apart a friendship and secondly, what about her chum is so proper now? that is to make her jealous and he or she'll in undemanding words lose appreciate for you. And if her chum is thinking backstabing her then, finally she's gonna do an same element to you! ask your self an same question you pick responded and note how u would experience if the tables were grew to develop into. inspite of if she has moved on, there are some issues that talk for itself, u shouldn't even ought to ask this question u already knew the answer. U r feeling responsible, so, do not DO IT!
2016-11-15 02:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by jackett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James is right--the guy's your ex so why should you care? As far as the person who knew about it and didn't say anything, they probably don't want to hurt you by telling you--I would rather have that kind of friend than the one who can't wait to tell you, even though they know it will hurt you.
2006-06-21 19:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by besoseda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Be very mature about it instead of a pissed off person whos been hurt. Meet them up somewhere for 5 minutes. Tell them exactly what they are, and put them in their place by using some very powerful meaningful words that they will never forget, however try not to swear, dont seem hurt and dont seem mad. If anything look very confident and give them the impression that you were glad to find out who they really were. Have power over them by your words and confidence. Say what you have to say in a few minutes than leave. Dont even give them a chance to say a single word or to defend themselfs, or even to put you down some more. Leave them speachless and in disbeleif to have been discribed in such a way. And do it in person not over the phone. Hell have fun with it! If your really hurt and you really feel that you have been backstabbed then you need to rid them out of your life for good and you need to make sure that they know this as well. Ive been backstabbed myself by a person i never thought would ever hurt me in such a way. I was so hurt that i stopped talking to that person for good fromt hat day on. Because they were not worth my time anymore and i made sure they knew that. Never gave them the chance to oppologize, to explain or defend themselves either. What do i care what they had to say? You hurt me once and your out of my life for good. And i dont care to give them the satisfaction of trying to explain themselves to feel less guilty. Thats the attitude you should have towards people who were so careless in the first place to have hurt you.
2006-06-21 19:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the friend that started dating your ex. Bump your other 'so called' friend down to an associate.
2006-06-21 19:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex, what difference does it make? However, if you feel that you have been betrayed, have you attempted to speak to them to let them know how you feel? If you have and no resolution can be made, it may be time to count them out as friends. If you have no trust in them, how can you maintain a friendship?
2006-06-21 19:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them. After all, I don't own any of my ex-boyfriends, heck, I've even forgiven the skank my husband picked up with while we were getting ready to "celebrate" our 20th wedding anniversary, in retrospect, she did me a huge favor.
2006-06-21 19:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care? You said they were an ex? Get on with your life!
2006-06-21 19:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by James T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply tell the so-called friend the truth... that I do not believe what they say & will not trust their word again unless they prove they're trustworthy.
2006-06-21 19:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were never friends to begin with.
2006-06-21 19:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋