my best friend is the nicest girl u wld ever meet. she is grest to my children and will do anything for anyone. well a year ago i hooked her up with a guy friend of mine a year ago to get her some booty cause she was gng through a drought.well it is a year later and she is still banging this guy. but the thing is is that he is 35 and she is 25 and he lives with his sister and my friend goes there when his sister leaves at 11 pm and leaves at 6 am before the sister gets home because his sister doesnt like it when her brother has girls around. i am telling my friend that she doesnt need to be treated like crap ecspecially when he says she is a hoe and is stupid and he uses her for booty.....is she stupi or am i for hooking them up?
2006-06-21 18:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is stupid for letting herself be subjucted to that she is old enough to make up her own mind dont u worry
2006-06-21 19:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stated that you hooked her up to get a booty call, not to make a love connection. If she is fine with being this man's piece of a$$ let it be. She's 25, which is old enough to know what she's doing and getting herself into. If she has persisted in this behavior for this long, she is obviously fine with and sees nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-21 19:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, In my opinion all friends r equal so there is no best friend or bestest friend.I have many friends and i take them all equally so i believe in all,i hang out with all,i laugh with all but for telling my secrets i share it only with my family.I trust my friends but the reason is i don't like people feeling bad for my problems.I always like to see my friends happy and always mast.
2016-05-20 10:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not stupid for hooking them up , but doesnt mean she is either really, she just may be in love . if you knew nothing of his actins from past girlfriends and didnt know he was a user then how could you be stupid? You only introduced them you didnt make her stay in the relationship right?
2006-06-21 19:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by bobby_brenda_slone2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you hooked them up, does not make you responsible for their actions. They are both grown adults, regardless of their age difference. You can give your friend your advice on this arrangement, but it is ultimately up to her to get the respect she deserves from this man. Don't beat yourself up. It is not your fault.
2006-06-21 19:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you should have kept her for yourself.love is friendship on fire.and very hard to find both.as for the guy talking crap about her???you decide,are you going to stand there and allow him to speak about her in such a matter.you need to find out where her head and heart are.if her heart is with him you need to let her know,if not stay out of the mess you created.
2006-06-21 19:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirlprincess08210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Sounds like you're both stupid. In fact, while you are examining your sanity, you may want to work on your grammar so you won't sound so stupid. You're on your own for acting stupid.
2006-06-21 19:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Perils of Paulette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of you are stupid his sister is stupid for getting in a grown mans buisness. shes a grown woman and she can be with who ever she wants and him also so screw his sister tell her to go over to his house when shes there and do what she wants his sister will have to get over it !
2006-06-21 19:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by italianamami21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her fault for letting herself be teated lyk crap u hooked her up lyk a good friend would do she is the one who let it get out of hand
2006-06-21 19:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ I love you babe ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats soo sad, introduce her to someone else.
he is just using her!!
he's 35 and still living with his sister??
he either needs to get his life together, or she needs to find someone new, she is still young!
2006-06-21 19:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by donnango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋