I really do, it makes me really sick to my stomach, especially when it's negative gossip about people I like. So yeah, I love my girls but I'm sick of all the drama. Maybe I should just stick to making true friends with guys from now on, right? Or are guys just as bad sometimes?
2006-06-21 18:49:43 · 4 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i do makes no sence to do it
2006-06-21 18:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by duckie duck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate gossip 2! it's so dramatic, but it's hard not 2 get dragged into it when it's about someone u care bout, because u want 2 stick up 4 them, ya no? That's why i like hanging out with guys more than girls. They're not as dramatic and u can tell them anything. Guys can tell eachother anything and they'll be over it the next day. But with girls they just hold a grudge and get into these stupid fights over nothin, when guys just forget about it. But not all guys r that way.
2006-06-22 02:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gossip is a formative way that adolescent girls connect with friends...is a very important process.
It's also a very basic way to bully other children - especially other girls.
You can be a wonderful catalyst for growth if you tell your girlfriends to keep their gossip positive and helpful.
They will learn to say nice things...everyone likes to hear positive comments...
You've heard the phrase "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything". I go one step beyond...if you can't find something nice to say...then write 10 nice things. Most of the kids I work with suddenly develop the ability to identify nice things in people, simply because they don't like sitting down and coming up with 10 nice things...
boys are bad...they are different...they go through a process I call BSing...they tell great stories...they try to outdo each other...and no matter how angry they get with each other...it's usually forgotten the next day...
hang in there with your girls...tell them to keep it positive...
2006-06-22 02:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evrybody hates gossips.. it ruins other people's lives u know.
but we cant do anything 2 stop some people fr poking their nose on issues not concerning them...
gossiping is like a disease. its contagious..
2006-06-22 02:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋