I really love my boyfriend in all but idk I just feeli like he dosen't love me anymore but I talk to him bout it in he doesn't seem to like her but idk that gril that really likes him is like really rich n hott so what do I do???
2006-06-21 18:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Becca B-ball Babe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont dump him, tell him this girl makes you feel and uncomfortable and ask him to make it clear to her he is already in a relationship and isnt interested in her, however if he keeps doing the same thing after you asked him to tell her that he isnt intersted then you might want to consider breaking up with him
2006-06-21 19:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by thinkpink2890 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have any doubts that he loves you, then first, ask him if he still does, and if you don't get the answer you were hoping for, then yes, dump him. I know if you have been with him for a while it may be really hard to just dump him, but you can't let him go on just falling into this rich, hot skanky girl's hands. You can't let him think that he can just flirt with any girl he wants, or not stop them from flirting with him by telling them he's taken, so you gotta be strong. Make sure to let him know that you want a man that is yours and only yours. And as for this chick that keeps flirting and calling your bf, I'd put her in check right now before it's too late and she thinks she can get away with messin with your bf. Hope I helped!
2006-06-22 01:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by I_luv_sr8889 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is talking to another girl but claims to have no interest, he's lying. The love of money is the root of all evil, and good. The love of the person who can spend it is just as itoxicating. You should confront both of them. Don't make a scene and dont look desperate. If all else fails you dump him and find someone better. Let him see what he missed out on. Trust me, if he leaves you for her, it wont last long. And if he does, never take him back because he will do it again. good luck!
2006-06-22 01:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by bunnicula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have some self esteem issues you need to work through. From the way it sounds, he has given you absolutely no reason to make you think he likes her more than you. It's all in your head. Either that, or you think he is really shallow and only likes girls with looks and money. If that's true, you're better off without him, but it sure doesn't sound like that's how he is at all. Sounds more like the problem is you. Not that there is anything wrong with you, but you must think there is. Work on getting some confidence, and TRUST your boyfriend when he says he doesn't like another girl!
2006-06-22 01:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by clayladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes the attention hes getting from this girl, then you need to dump him. because if he really loves you than youre attention is all he will have desire for. And if you know youre not satisfying him by enough attention, then dump him anyway, because he will be tempted sooner or later to go with the one who is giving him the attention. Dont ask him if he likes her attention either, because he will just say no... Just study his reactions and read the sign to see if he the attention hes getting from this girl. And if you have doubts or feel in anyway that he doesnt love you, or loves you any less, then you really need to dump him. Also, ask yourself if he has ever told her to back off or stop calling him. I mean if he seems pissed off or annoyed everytime she calls him because she is a bother, than you can tell he doesnt like the attention and that he really does love you. But if he seems amused by it then dump him. Because like i said earlier, he might just get curious and tempted to be more amused by this girl. There isnt much you can do in this sittuation, it is really up to him to deal with it like a man. Also if he doesnt hear you out on your feelings about this then you really need to leave him!!.. he doesnt seem to care about your feelings, meaning he also wont care if you get hurt... meaning he will cheat and not give a sh!t if your hurt or not. Think about it.
2006-06-22 02:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you dump your boyfriend who you love for no reason?? That doesn't make since, now if he was cheating on you then that would be a reason to dump him. But just because he is talking to another girl is no reason to dump him, and if you want to keep him then you shouldn't be jealous about this girl and start thinking that you are a catch and he is lucky to have you.
2006-06-22 01:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real if a rich and Hot guy came along and was calling u what would u do?
Thats why momma said why buy the cow if u can get the milk 4 free sorry get rich and hot or dump him b4 he dumps u
2006-06-22 01:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's already f_cking her. Move on before you get hurt more than you have already. There are over three billion male humans in the world, he is but one. He's not worth the hassle. Move on.
Also, money doesn't matter to guys, the hot part, yes, the money, no. Money only matters to women when it comes to choosing who they are with, not men.
2006-06-22 01:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up your game by learning how to spell and maybe the gods will look down on you and smile with joy and your wishes shall be granted.
2006-06-22 01:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by bigmamads 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust your bf you should stay with him until he gives you a reason not to..and dont let him know you worry about it soo much or he'll feel untrusted and be much more prone to be with her instead of you..guys are really insecure some of the time...just let him know you trust him...and if he really loves you then he'll make sure to keep that trust...
2006-06-22 01:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by haleybug137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋