You could read Co-Dependent No More by Melodie Beattie, it would be a good start. Of course, doing these things is always easier said than done, and you can't please everyone so ya gotta please yourself. All right now, learn that lesson well.....
Good luck and God Bless - this is the only life you get, MAKE IT COUNT!
2006-06-21 18:19:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think anyone can live their life without trying to please at least somebody, even if it's just the person who writes your paychecks ^_^ Different people have different personalities and it's hard to be something that you're not... It's probably best just to try to find a healthy balance. I hate hurting other people's feelings also, but at some point you need to start considering your own needs as well. Nothing wrong with pleasing other people, as long as you don't end up ignoring yourself.
2006-06-22 01:28:01
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answered by Otterbob 2
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Do what you feel is the right thing. Some times people are not happy with your decisions. Life is not always easy, and dealing with others can be difficult. Allow God to direct your way. God will never stir you wrong.
2006-06-22 01:27:42
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answered by Mommy Lynn 1
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The only person other people need to worry about is themselves. Hell most of them do a bang up job living their own lives so how they gonna tell someone else what to do?
2006-06-22 01:26:27
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answered by Anonymous
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You don't always have to please everyone else...&& you don't always have to put yourself first either. Just do what you think is right if other people don't like your decisions,, they'll get over it.
2006-06-22 01:21:02
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answered by ash6lei2a 2
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I don't know...still working on that one myself.
2006-06-22 01:18:50
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answered by sosickofred 3
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