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i'm 21 malay girl.have a little bit experience in love but i'm afraid if i get hurt to be closed with some guys.i always hope i could understand about their feelings.

2006-06-21 17:33:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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the most intellingent guy in the word isn;t the hottest or the best catch, but as for your question on physical looks, it doesn't fully matter if you love the person with all your heart, but there has to be at least one thing that your attracted to, it may be anything from there smile to the glimer in there eyes, and plz from all of us, dont be scared to love, you might get hurt by some, but you may find smoeone more amazing that you could have ever dreamed of, so plz, dont be scared all that bad that happnes just helps you know what to not do again, teehee

2006-06-29 02:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Vprincess 5 · 0 2

We know of Dr. Albert Einstein and Stephen Hawking as two of the most intelligent people. There could be some more. IQ levels above 120 means intelligent. Coming to love life, it has much to do with caring and sharing. Intelligence is not always called for. "A thing of beauty is a joy forever" and everyone wants to look at a beautiful face as it has the ability to uplift your sagging spirits. However, looks alone are insufficient to attract forever. Beauty has to be internal and external. Good mental qualities like patience, humility, sensitivity, honesty, open mindedness, empathy etc. make you a great lover than just being intelligent. Some intelligent people suffer from superiority complex which is very irritating and repulsive. Human relations are based on emotions, not on the ability to solve problems.

Dear Malay baby, you cannot change your face or skin colour but can improve your body shape and size as well as work on those wonderful qualities which endear a person. Adorn your face with a genuinely beautiful smile. Wishing you a great love life.

2006-07-05 20:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0 0

Physical looking is NOT what is most important. Well let's break this down between men and women since we are two VERY different genders. The first attraction is obviously based on looks but it goes far deeper than that. Men have been and will always be more apt to becoming ones partner because of looks. On the other hand, a woman desires companionship, friendship, understanding, closeness, and commitment. A woman can choose these qualities in an unatractive man before she chooses an attractive man without these qualities. Good looks don't last honey. People need to rise above the shallow level they are sinking in and realize happiness isn't found in sex, drugs, and rock and roll. Happiness is found in a friend.

2006-07-04 11:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0 0

Wow a 2 part question. Brilliant, lol.
1. Most Intelligent Men in the World?
I'm basing this on the more prominent in leading academia/ pop culture. They are Einstein and currently it's Hawking.
2. Simply because men have this warped idea that having an attractive mate will produce beautiful children.
It's impossible to love without getting hurt.
Unless you're inhuman with no emotion maybe then that's a possibility.
To understand men is like them trying to understand us! That's why it's the longest running topic whether it's music, movies, books, etc... it's ongoing.
Just be open, be you & enjoy the feeling that love brings.

2006-06-21 18:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0 0

It depends on how we define intelligence, just tagging one person as the most intelligent person in the world, would certainly be unjust towards all the respectable personalities we have seen so far.
One parameter of judging intelligence is based on your IQ, but experts say that it is not only IQ that counts but also EQ & SQ.
(emotional quotient and spiritual quotient)
The person with the highest IQ is Marillyn vos savant.
But it is often argued that whether IQ of a person remains the same throughout their lifetime.Some say it can be changed and some say it cannot. Well I leave that for you to decide.
EQ depends on how well we get along with others and SQ something which is based on our level of spiritual awareness.

It is definitely not true that intelligence is a must for a successful love life, it may add some improvement though.
For instance, Albert einstein (someone who we all consider as the greatest thinker of all time) who has become an icon of intelligence, but if you look at his married life, he did break up from his spouse although he kept contact with her.
For a successful love life you need commitment, compassion, faithfulness, trust and how deep you understand your partner.It is definitely not like... you care for them for few years and the so called true love withers off.Its very foundation is built over trust and develops gradually taking time. The so called love at first sight is simply the physical attraction to which we surrender ourselves.
It always has to be a win-win situation.

2006-07-05 00:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shikhar 2 · 0 0

well by being afraid you then shutdown your heart to love or not leave it open quit as you should, which prevents you from fully loving someone which probably hurts too. If you are alone and afraid then your hurting so take a chance on happiness and love you have more chances of being alone and hurting then being in a relationship and not getting the chance to love or to be loved by another.
to be honest I do not know 1 person who has ever been in a relationship and not hurt but it is a relationship so you take the good with the bad. You feel joy when your and partner are happy and sad when one or the other is going through something sad.
But, at least your together and able to feel both.
Sherry

2006-07-05 20:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Support Our Troops 3 · 0 0

The most intelligent men in this world are the men that treasure a women for there buety on the inside, not so much the outside. More and more it seems that men only want a women for body and beauty and the world is not becoming a better place becuase of it. I know I'm a girl but this is just my idea and hopefully some men agree with me.

2006-06-29 07:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The most intelligent man in the world is the one who doesnt fall in love or doesnt get married.He is a rarity or rather such a man has never existed.....
Good looks are an essential part of the criteria for selection of partners because it is hardwired in our brain.It is something that has been transferred through each generation along with the assumption that he who looks good is also a better human being,is richer, is stronger and thergy will be a better investment in the future.

2006-07-05 23:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by anand v 1 · 0 0

Apparently the isest man that ever lived (maybe not the most intelligent) was Socrates and he was supposed to be REAL ugly. Those of us who consider our hearts and minds to be full of blossoming life and wealth but who consider our looks a little lacking are many places (i would fall into this category maybe).
Physical stuff is more important in most cases but it shouldn't be. If its actually love then it wont matter when your both old and wrinkly telling stories to your grandchildren. I have this fear that a someone i know whose absolutely beautiful likes me for who i am but wont for how i look in time. But we cannot live by our fears. If i did i'd have given up already. remember lack of confidence also gives a humility which increases your personality away from arrogance.

2006-06-22 01:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by zephyrescent 4 · 0 0

The most intelligent man in the world is the one who respects himself, respects others, is humble in his words and claims, is not boastful or rude to others, works hard, his word is his bond and lives life to the fullest with no fear.

Everyone else, is a mere pale shadow in his reflection. No matter when one has a trophy cabinet of Nobel prizes, no matter whether one is regarded by others as a "genius", these qualities have no value against the most intelligent man's character.

I can't tell you his name. Sorry. I'd love to meet him. In comparison, I am a hopeless, bumbling philosopher. As the Dalai Lama once said "to met a whole human being, what a rare individual indeed!".

On the physical part of your question- I'll leave that to others to answer.

2006-06-21 20:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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