ok, i am a very outgoing, funny, popular, and just waay out there person. I try to be my own person, but i cant. everyone considers me as a prep so thats what i have tobe. and everyone thinks my life is soooo great. but its not really. the onl 2 people that actually notice me for who i am is my boyfriend and god. i am in 8th grade..but still, shouldnt i be able to live my life how i want it to be? someone please help me on what i should do...but i dont wnna kill myself.
2006-06-21 16:53:31 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey, I remember being your age. You shouldn't let people restrain you from who you are. Also, keep in mind that these are the years (I'm sure you've heard this plenty of times) when people change and grow, so keep an open mind on who you want to be. I've changed so much during my 8th grade year, but make good choices cause these specific years will alter your life for better or worse. Who cares what everyone thinks, because in the end, it's you has to live with yourself. Here is my motto that you can use for anything: "Ignorance is bliss, but knowledge is power." Good luck!
2006-06-21 16:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by missyprettyinpink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if your really thinking about killing yourself, you need therapy. Even if everyone thinks your a prep it doesnt matter, be who YOU want to be, YOU have to live in your own skin, not then. you may lose some friends, but you'll make other ones. learn to be your own person, people will see you for who you are and people will learn to love who you are, if people tell you cant be the way you want to be then they arent true friends. GOOD LUCK
2006-06-21 23:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by alykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you can't go around living life how people want you to you will never be happy you got to be true to yourself when it all boils down the only person that can truly make you happy is yourself you need to love you before you can love others keep your head up and do and be the person that makes you happy and to hell with what others think life is live love and laugh not going around doing what others what you to do live for you and let a smile be your umbrella
2006-06-21 23:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, calm down. whatever happens, never kill yourself, all it does is send u to hell.
as for your life at school, remember that u can do things w/o haveing ppl agree w/ it. u need to find the place u feel comfortable, whether it be punk, prep, tomboy, whatever, and be that, no matter what other ppl think. and there r more than 2 ppl that notice u for who r u, i'm sure. look around, you'll find someone, whether it be your preacher, or a person u dont realize, someone other than your bf has noticed that u for who u r, and if u cant find one, E-mail me, i'll be that person for u.
2006-06-22 00:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be hard to except hun, but you are only in the eigth grade. There is so much of life that you have not experienced yet you may think you are old enough but when a push comes to a pull and you are challenged with problems beyond your compacity you will understand. We all have wanted to be trusted, and given our space. You time will come. Be patient hun.
2006-06-22 00:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in people labeling other people. You don't have to be anything you don't want to be. Just because people label you as "preppy" that's not what you have to be. Why not try being a trendsetter and let everyone know that it's ok to just be yourself. As long as you are happy with the person you are, don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
2006-06-21 23:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you asking?You lost me way back.If you got tobe and god that's all you need .Your only in the 8,just a kid still.Quit trying to grow up so fast!You have all the time in the world.Enjoy your youth.I wish i would of but i wanted to grow up too fast.And your lucky at least you have someone you can count on and trust,some of us in this world don't even have that,so suck it up ,get over what ever your freaking out about.and go play!!!!BREATH!!!
2006-06-22 00:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by wildblonde_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, you are so young. Enjoy your carefree life, because it won't stay that way forever. The sooner you realize that it doesn't matter what anyone (except for God and your mother) thinks, the more happy you will be with your life. I wish you the best of luck in all of your endeavors.
2006-06-22 00:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by deeeelyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where you become an individual. Like NIKE says "JUST DO IT!" For a week try being yourself don't care what anybody thinks.Since you are already popular people will probably accept the real you. If they don't then who cares, you need friends who accept you for you!
2006-06-22 00:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm,Girlfriend,first of all 8th,grade,and you already got grown up folks problems!?see life has all types of roads that one may choose of how or what,life will be of making!?true you do have that right to live your life how you see fit,being at that age,worried abit,shoots!your life hasn,t even begun yet,there is so much ahead and instored for you!stay in them books and get your education!then find you path!enjoy your daily happiness,while you are young oh!and that boy friend cool,stuff you get to that point of wanting to do or even if doing it(sex)wear protection,std,s hurt and H.I.V.kills!?no one i hope isn,t trying to stop you from being you hun! ever thought of them seeing somethin in you that they don,t or desire to be or get(a good heart or even the way you carry yourself it can be so many things so young lady take your time in life and respect where you lay your head!?alot of years more to go!
2006-06-22 00:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋