2006-06-21 16:50:12 · 12 answers · asked by patric 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexual attraction is primarily in the mind. And it certainly begins there.
You can program your mind to do what you want it to. Think about it: Are you attracted to your mom or dad, brother or sister? OK, and why not? Because your mind is not programmed to be attracted to them.
Easy enough to understand. Takes practice to train your mind.
Somebody may say that's not possible, but you would be amazed what you can train your mind to do and not do--or think and not think--if you so determine .
Good luck with it.
2006-06-21 17:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not the attraction that's bad; it's ACTING on them that's bad (that is, without the guy's consent...if it's consensual, then by all means go for it...then again, at that point the "straight" man would cease to be straight ^_^). So go ahead, be attracted. Just don't do anything they don't want you to do.
2006-06-22 01:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Qchan05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm attracted to straight guys/girls, gay guys, lesbians, bisexual guys/girls. There is no way to prevent this. It's just the way you are. You're probably bisexual, like me. There's nothing wrong with this. There's also nothing wrong with being attracted to straight guys. I think they're really sexy and cute. I'd love to be mouth raped by 5 straight guys. And forced to swallow their loads.
2006-06-22 00:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by TommyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no harm in being attracted to straight guys
i mean you have a choice either to actually sleep with one or just admire from a distance.
you can choose you know. if you cant get hot guys out of your head, then get a hobby or better yet help the needy. i mean if you fill your head with all the sadness in the world that most of us close one with, you wont have time to think about hot guys.
2006-06-21 23:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by budaklolo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you can control your own likes and dislikes...it's just as likely that you'll be attracted to a gay guy as not, and just as likely that they won't want to have anything to do with you either...life and love works like that...good luck!
2006-06-22 00:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really... I don't think anyone can with some guys... just remember the really gross things about straight men... he might not have showered.... you never know...
2006-06-21 23:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Malapralaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your perception that straight men are the only real men around? or change your mentality that set yourself up for failure in a relationship?
2006-06-22 08:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay and like straight guys?? Or are you "straight" and think you might be gay?? Can't change what you are.
2006-06-21 23:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk dont be gay maybe!!! thats the only thing i can think of it is normal to be attracted to anybody attrative in the sex u are attracted to.
2006-06-21 23:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn into a lesbian......it worked for me..
2006-06-22 00:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by cmonaghan472 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋