ok well i just **** my life up i was just about to have the girl i been wanting for a year and i just miss it all up need hep wat am i going to tell her she all that matters to me i think i going to kill myself dont know what to do
2006-06-21 16:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her, be honest with your feelings and tell her how you feel. She deserves that. And she wil appreciate your honesty.
2006-06-21 16:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do that was so bad? Usually anything can be fixed(with time)if you said some hurtful words. If you cheated on her, then it's going to be harder to get her back. It's probably best to stay away from her for awhile, but at the same time call her every now and again to let her know that you're still thinking about her and that you're sorry. Females are emotional creatures. Hence, if she even liked you at all to begin with, then your absence should make her start missing you if only just a little bit. At the very least, with time, she should slowly, but surely begin talking to you again, hearing you out. And maybe, just maybe, she'll finally accept your apology,and take you back.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-21 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...there are tons of girls out there and I believe everything happens for a reason. Imagine there is a better girl out there waiting all alone somewhere sad and crying like you, asking for you? Only you haven't met yet. I say, let it happen. Wait one week and I promise you your life will be totally different. Come on here and tell us what happened. I am better than Cleo...seriously...trust me on this one.
2006-06-21 16:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you mess it up? Most likely it isn't as messed up as you think. Tell her you like her. And you are sorry for whatever you did to mess up. If you were to kill yourself you could never get the girl. And NO one is worth that. Even if you messed it up for good there WILL be someone else.
2006-06-21 16:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. dont kill yourself its over-rated and has no point
2. think about what you want to say to her before you say it
3.dont let more than a day go by
4.go talk to her! tell her how you feel, tell her your sorry for what you did (obviously you did something) tell her you love her, and bring her a suprise like getting her friend to help you get her somewhere, like a park with rosepetals leading to a candelight picknick or something small like writing i love you with her name on your shirt.
5. dont give up
2006-06-21 17:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by alykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass, my friend. Don't kill yourself over a girl. Call a suicide hotline if it's really that serious. Take care of yourself, and don't do anything you'll regret!
2006-06-21 16:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for one thing,dont go killing yourself over one girl. there are dozens out there and im sure you can find the girl who is possibly better then you current dream girl.try to get her one more time, and if you dont get her, slowly but gradually move on to another girl who is just right for you.good luck!
2006-06-21 16:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have placed a great burden on your loved one without knowing it. you need desperately to find something within yourseld to give that peace of esteem. l find its helped me ).to first let go completely then she begins to see a change. Now Im not sure I want her back either.
2006-06-21 18:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by demarest2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. If the girl dumps you then I guess she's not the one for you. If she isn't going to stick with you through the hard times then.....bye
2006-06-21 16:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by bike hunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk up to her and just tell her how you feel, that's how I get guys all the time!
2006-06-21 17:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by sharpayevans_hsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋