My boyfriend of over 2 years has just signed a lease with one of his ex girlfriends. He told me that they are just friends, and he doesn't want to sleep with her again. They are moving into a 2 bedroom apartment.
Our relationship has been a little shaky over the 2 years, we broke up a couple times, but always got back together. But, he has told me that he doesn't want to live with ME, because if we break up it will be really bad. But actually one time when we were broke up, we slept together, so it makes me think why won't he have any urges to sleep with his ex? And why does he want to live with her, if she is crazy? (As he told me she was).
Also, I don't see why he can't just get his own apartment, he is 31 years old, and makes enough, I think to afford his own place.
He always had roommates as long as I've known him. I thought I was mad when he lived with 2 girls and 1 guy this last year, but living with an ex just doesn't seem right to me, but there is nothing I can do?
2006-06-21 16:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They have known each other since high school. I have gone out with the both of them before, but I am a jealous person I think to begin with, so I don't like it.
2006-06-21 17:38:16 · update #1
Wake up. Don't you watch the show Cheaters?
That's what he's doing to you. Don't fall for it.
He doesn't care how you feel about things.
That's a big sign that things are over. If he loved
you, he wouldn't hurt you by living with other
women. I bet he and his male friends got a big
laugh off of that one.
2006-06-21 16:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO. This is a very bad situation, my ex fiance lived with his ex gf while we were together and got her pregnant (while we were together). If he moves in with her it could be really bad.
2006-06-22 13:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by arewnrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should break up with him becuase he would rather live with his ex
he also said that IF you guys break up then it would be akward to live together
he isobviously hinting that u guys will break up so don't bother about him
just break up with him now
marriage should be a long lasting commitiment not a shaky realtionship
2006-06-21 23:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd be looking real fast to get out of that mess just be done with him find someone that cares
2006-06-21 23:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i give it about a month for him to be banging her.
2006-06-21 23:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋