Do u know how pissed off i am we've been going out for 2 years and he goes cheating on me. I am debating weather or not I should go to his house (have spare keys) when he goes to work and put bleach on his clothes cause i'm so PISSED!!!!! you don't understand man I mean this is the first time this as ever happened so i don't know weather to cry or get revenge and bleach his clothes and maybe smash a few things. What do u think? yes or no
2006-06-21 16:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, don't vent your anger on his clothes. Let your anger out on him by telling it to his face. Otherwise, he's going to get mad at you for destroying his things. Two wrongs don't make it right. If you do succumb to the destructive feeling inside, the scene is going to escalate into something you will probably regret.
Men all have wandering eyes. If you love him, calm yourself down and let him know that you are going to end the relationship because you had faith in him but he betrayed your trust. See what developes from there.
2006-06-21 16:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Siddy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,i just went through the same thing 1 month before my weddind day.My husband (yes i did marry him) got cauhgt with this female at his cuz apt.I went over to fix breakfast and got a totally differnt surprise another woman.Of course i was hurt,wanted to break out all his window,put bleach on his clothes,girl allthat.But what i did was go home and cry,put Mary J on,i did'nt answer the phone for 5 days,no visits,i even called off the wedding.But this ***** got smart and no i am not gonna let another woman try and take what i have put years of work into.I seen that my man was at least honest about what happened,i did forgive but never forget,He knows if he cheats now he will have to pay $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$,for the rest of his life.But no baby,men are stupid,and women are probaly stupider for messing and keep putting up with them,dont bleach his clothes,**** the **** out of him or make love to him,find out what he really wants.If your heart is there the realthship will work.
2006-06-21 16:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by antionette s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since this is the first time it has happen than i would of couse be pissed off at him for awhile make him pay for it but not anything like bleaching his clothes or anything just let him know how you feel and stay away for awhile and if he loves you than he will try to get you back but dont fall right away wait for about a week or two and if he still trying than take him back but make him your little ***** for the next week than see what happens
2006-06-21 16:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to have solid proof he's cheating
Second if he is cheating this isn't the first time.
Third bleaching his clothes isn't going to hurt him the way you're hurting. Try thinking about something he cares more about then clothes. And last but not least definitely get the b****!
2006-06-21 16:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by wonka's wifee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK obviously he does not love you because he just cheated on you
you can do what ever you want
revenge and cry
but i suggest you don't cry because if you found out he cheated on you , you should be angry
go to his house and destroy it
and then if you know who the girl is that he cheated with
put here name on the wall in spray paint
then he will get mad at her and break up with her and come to you
then lead him on , seduce him, get him naked, tell him to go and get you something to eat, take his clothes and take off.
let him get the picture
GOOD LUCK
2006-06-21 16:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him if he loved you he would not have cheated find your self a good guy that will love and respect you trust me in a cuple of weeks you will get over him and i know cuz it happend to me but my ex was cheating with my best friend.
2006-06-21 16:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by your best nightmare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything to physically hurt him, or cause damage to his property. In the end you'll probably end up paying for it. Just dump him and move on. (if only it were that easy huh?)
2006-06-21 16:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Abbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything to get put in jail... just drop him and never talk to him again.. and if he has any love for u it will hurt him most that way.
2006-06-21 16:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl go head thAT cheating s.o.b should get it. but then it is better if you mess with his heart not his house. act like it is ok. it is his first time. (right?) well you do it back to him but 10 times worse. do it smart k gurl good luck!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxo
2006-06-21 16:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by rae rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just block him out of your life
2006-06-21 16:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋