i think my husbands stillin love with his ex. how do i find out for sure?

Answer 1

just ask him

Answer 2

i think there is no need for you to find out the truth. If he said he is not in love with his ex, you will not believe. If he said he still love his ex., you will feel hurts. There no point asking him, because you will never know what is in his heart.. coz he himself sometimes also feel confused and worry what you do if he tell you the truth. If your husband always by your side and you are his wife now... why worry??? Life is short, why not just be happy and enjoy every moment peacefully with your husband. I wish you luck, hope you will have a lovely peaceful marriage with your husband. Don't tnink too much..............

Answer 3

Do you not trust him? It would be best if you listed out to us why do you think he is still inlove with his ex. does he always keep giving you excuses that he is working late? does he always not pick up your call after working hours??
you can try to ask his workmates on activities after work... check his phone bill... check his mobile... or if you have his ex gf's number, call from a private number ...
what ever you do, make sure he does not find out cause if you were wrong, your marriage might just go down the drain...

Answer 4

I know some people say ask him. I won't.

I know from experience if you bring up another woman to a man you love or are involved with, they tend to use it against you. He will think you are insecure and can even use her to make you jealous. (Deamon K is right. Asking him might be the beginning to the end esp. if he's not inlove with her)

I will think about your question and get back to you. But I will love to know what makes you think he's still inlove with her. Maybe that way, I can properly aswer your question. I don't think you should ask him. At least, not yet.

Answer 5

DONT!! You will be hurt, to know the truth. The way you asked your question seems you are sure that your husband is still in love to his EX, the only thing you want is to confirm it by hard evidence, if you dont want to get hurt, DONT TRY TO FIND OUT.

Answer 6

I always felt the same way about my husband too... because when he was with me, you know what he said," i don't care who i get marry to, i hope that she knows i will always love my ex." And then we got forced to get marry. And then i asked him one day, do you remember when you said that to me, so do you still feel the same now??? and he said no, but i don't believe him, because i overheard him telling his cuzz that he still miss her sometimes, but you know what, if he wants to be with a hoe who slept with his own nephew, then go for it, i can do better anyways. So my advice, Just pay attention to the way he acts, if he shows little interest in you then somethings going on.

Answer 7

Ask him.

He is your husband, and if you know him (and i'm sure you do) you'll know by his answer if he is being honest.

Bear in mind, it is his ex, and he obviously shared feelings with this person, the main thing to remember is, it is his ex and you are his wife. A clear indication of where his loyalties are.

Benefit of the doubt until you know other wise. Innocent until proven guilty....

Kudos to you!

Answer 8

First of all I would buy a voice activated recorder - hide it in a hard to find area near the phone - when your not around he may call her or a friend to discuss her - you may find more information about it. Sure it's sneaky but it does work.

Answer 9

The best and easiest way to find out is just to ask him. Go about it honest and you should get honesty in return. Good luck!

Answer 10

Most people do still have a special place in their heart for people that were special to them at one point. Let it be, unless you think he's cheating on you.

Answer 11

Hire a private investigator.