My boyfriend is always nice to me except for when his friend Alex is over when Alex is over he insults and they laugh at me and make fun of me and he is not himself at all! I have talked to him about this and he says he dont do it but i know he does and it hurts i like the regular him not the im with alex him! What do I Do?
2006-06-21 13:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well if they insult and laugh at you, it means your bf is probably not going to be one the most trustworthy people because he will act different with every person he meets
2006-06-21 13:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by bluechaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you do not need somebody who is going to INSULT you in front of his friend and makes fun of you! That is totally disrespectful- I don't care how he acts the rest of the time! If he won't respect you in front of his friend I wonder how he acts or what he says about you when you are not there! Your boyfriend should NEVER insult you and publicly humiliate you, it should never happen in the first place, and especially if you said something before then he is just insensitive and obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings! You deserve someone who will treat you like a princess and with respect ALL of the time!! Dump the loser and find someone who will treat you right! The right guy for you is out there =) You are better than that- believe me! Have respect and dignity for yourself and cut the jerk loose to make fun of some other bimbo- cuz you are not that girl!
2006-06-21 20:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Take it from someone who knows...he is trying to show his friend that you don't mean that much to him and that he's not serious about you. He's showing Alex that he's got you under his control and that you'll do what he wants no matter how he treats you. He's a control-freak in training.
Never stay with someone who disrespects you....it doesn't matter whether you are alone or around others...he should ALWAYS be the same to you. Find someone who will treat you right.
2006-06-21 20:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, you don't need him! If he insults you, even if he doesn't mean it, then he isn't worth anything! Ugh, its just like with all these girls that won't break up with a man that beats them. If a man hurts you, he doesn't love you. that's the bottom line. Find a decent man to be with.
2006-06-21 20:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by k10sbride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. that's a hard one. Well, if I were you, I'd give him an ultimatum. The next time it happens, just be like "Dude, stop! You're being a friggin' b@st@rd and I'm tired of your sh!t!" I would really recommend the profanity... gives it that extra zing LOL.... let's him know you're a mad little b!+ch!
2006-06-21 20:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cara Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he can't show you respect in front of his friends, then he is a waste of skin.
Lose him.
2006-06-21 20:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by xbutterflyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋