2006-06-21 13:35:47 · 25 answers · asked by charlee 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Of course. I am all about wanting to please my partner.
Nothing makes you feel worse then finishing and her not quite there.
...yes it even happens to me sometimes.
2006-06-21 13:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Of course it is important. If you think about it though its much easier for a woman to have the orgasm than the guy, bc there are many different things you can do to ensure this. There is foreplay starting out and just touching and kissing, then of course sex. But as for the orgasm different guys feel different ways about it of course. I have had some friends that didnt care if the woman got one, and as for me......I feel the more I give her the better I will feel. If you give a girl 15orgasms and she cant move you will feel like the king of the world.. and trust me its possible ;)
2006-06-22 01:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your question, it depends. there are several factors to concider. How important is it to you to satify the person your with? If you don't care about this person and are just satifying your own needs then it really dosn't matter. On the other hand if this is someone your going to spend a conciderable amount of time with then yes it is important. If a women is able to acheve an orgasm during sex not only does it make her feel good but it also stokes the male ego. Any how that's my opinion.
2006-06-21 21:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it depends on the guy. For me it used to be very important. I liked to know that she was enjoying it.
Now, I think it depends on the mood of both; being able to accept being pleasured without a "tit for tat" trade is just as important to a relationship as it is to want to give that to your partner.
Even including that, one of the biggest turn offs of all is knowing that a woman is there because she feels like she has to be, rather than becasue she wants to be (whether that means they are seeking an orgasm or not).
2006-06-21 20:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Quark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-21 20:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely preferable. For the good guys (jerks couldn't care less as long as they get off), having her reach orgasm makes the entire experience much more satisfying.
2006-06-21 20:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely! As a matter of fact, women who can have an orgasm whenever they choose are my personal favorites. ;))
Not only does it tell me that she's a deeply sensual woman, it turns me on to think that she's doing that just for me! What an ego trip! :D
2006-06-21 20:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F**K YES!!! I am a virgin, but I think that guys can get off so easily that it would be much better if you both could come.If you can get your partner to come, your relationship will be sooo much better. It shows that you care more about the girl than yourself and I think that women respect when a guy puts her before him.
2006-06-21 21:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure would be nice.Both for her and the man.I can't speak for every man but I feel good knowing I helped a woman to acheive orgasm.Plus it's a turn on to see happen.If you care about the omwan you want her to feel good.And it helps a guys self esteem too!
2006-06-21 20:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by drokk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely important if the woman isnt happy in bed then what good is the relationship even tho having sex isnt the whole relationship it is a pretty good chunk. so in answer to your questions my answer is Yes!
2006-06-21 20:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice, but as long as I get off I could care less. Women are here to take care of men, and the sooner you feminists realize this the better off you'll be.
2006-06-21 20:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋