What to do when he Takes of no reason Credit card bill shows all?

Question

My husbad and I have ad a very stressful needless to say we were getting along so perfect is was sickning.. I was away he calls to ask me when I will be ome he is gone... So I come home to a mess almost a week now I live in a samll town do not search for him so Today his father called me up set i said well ok I will find him.. I go into the credit card online find out he as a cell and a hotel room.. I wrote a nasty letter but polite saying it was over i had myself fooled e wrote me asking me back blah blah i gave in said it over he is acting like a child When i say I am done sould I mean done and build my life! We do not need his money I make more but never brag the love thing was not there he swears there is no oter women I dont think he gets it- What he id was embaresment nd a disgrace I new his cell phone number would not call left message with friend today I yold him I new all well I owed him and appology for a credit card I own and gave to him he does not know i looked into.

Answer 1

First of all try to calm down.

Because you are married, you need to get something crystal clear with him. That you deserve to have respect. Do not involve everyone in your business (family and friends), this is between you and him. Find out who he is spending time with, and why. How did he meet them (male or female?). Money isn't the issue, find out why he went outside of the marriage and for how long. I would want to find out everything I could before I gave him any information on what my next steps would be. You will need to talk to a good lawyer. NOT FRIENDS OR FAMILY. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Perhaps an anthropologist could decipher the meaning of this post better than I... From what little English I could gather, it sounds like you got played and then he split with the money. Do his best friend and take pictures...

Answer 3

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