my aunt wants to hook me up with her nephew (he's my second cousin) or something but i definetedly know he's not related to me!! well, i'm already planning my quincianera (mexican sweet sixteen but when youre 15) and she wants him to be my chambelan (or however u spell it) i used to like him but i don't know it feels weird cause he feels like family. I already tried talking her out of it, but she's always tryign to hook us up!! i talked to her and mom but they thought it was a good idea to have him as a boyf or a chambelan. but i can't talked them out of it! i think i keep repeatin stuff. plz help what else can i do????
2006-06-21 12:08:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i think they want us to go out cause he's trustworthy and nice, and good grades, and blah blah blah
2006-06-21 12:11:27 · update #1
HE"S NOT RELATED TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO POSSIBLE WAY!!!!!!
2006-06-21 12:14:34 · update #2
yo seein as u one of my ppl do wat my prima did when they had some guy she didnt like as her chambelan she kicked him in the cojones that was funny
2006-06-23 12:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Puertorican Problem 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Okay tell him that your having these problems with your dad. and that you gave your phone# out to a stranger online who is harassing you. (why did you delete that one by the way) and are catholic and know that abortion is a sin but have no problem thinking about losing your virginity. And that you've been chatting with a guy you like that was ugly but is cute and you write poems about. and with the complicated soap opera of a life you just can't find the time to pencil him in.
Maybe next season lol.
quincianera!?! I thought your bio says your 13. that's some mighty early planning.
2006-06-21 13:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There constantly seems to be one in all 'those' men around. I even have dealt with so could it truly is wonderful. Avoidance and being intense-high quality, yet nonetheless blowing them off basically does not ever seem to get the factor throughout the time of. If this could be a concern you opt to maintain friendly. perchance you notice him on a nicely-known foundation in social concern. You mentioned church? you probable do no longer choose this guy crying to all of us that your propose. Be serious, right this moment-forward, yet well mannered. do no longer look on the floor, look at him. tell him you haven't any pastime in being something yet his chum. end it there. be particular what you're saying is the tip of the verbal substitute. in case you do no longer care what he thinks or says basically overlook approximately him thoroughly. If he nonetheless persists. Telling them off is the final motel even yet it constantly works. basically undergo in suggestions you under no circumstances truly comprehend who your pissing off, till they are your enemy. Then they actually permit their actual colorings fly.
2016-10-31 06:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is family, whether it's second cousin, third cousin, step cousin, step brother/sister, or bonded by marriage. Don't cross the line, and tell your aunt that you consider him blood and like family.
2006-06-21 12:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say no and just have fun at your quincianera. I had fun at mine it was like the ones you see on TV.lol
2006-06-21 14:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you want to find somebody on your own... that you don't like him that way... that you won't be happy with him and they should at least want you to be happy
2006-06-21 12:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone better and introduce him to ur mom and aunt
2006-06-21 14:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by bballchampion13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh that not right .where i come from we don't date our relatives it just not done 1st 2ND 3 what ever.no
2006-06-21 12:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them it grosses you out because you consider him your cousin.
tell your dad.....
2006-06-21 12:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by cindy loo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋