I had a miscarriage today I lost the baby when I was 10 weeks pregnant... So how soon can we start trying again? I'm still bleeding very badly and in a lot of pain... I need real advice...
2006-06-21 11:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by Krystle T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I'm very sorry to hear of that. I also had a miscarriage when I was 11 weeks and 4 days pregnant. After having two D&C's, my doctor told me that I would be able to conceive again after waiting one full cycle. He also said that it is easier to conceive straight after a miscarriage, because the lining of the uterus is thin and fresh. I was able to conceive again the first month trying, and I am now nearly 17 weeks pregnant. I really hope that God will bless you in the same way.
Here's some information from a magazine of mine that might be helpful to you.
Conceiving after miscarriage:
If you have experienced a miscarriage, you will probably be advised by your doctor to wait at least until you have a normal period before trying to conceive again. It's thought that you may be at increased risk of another miscarriage if you conceive too quickly after the first.
'Until about 10 years ago, women were advised to wait three months before conceiving after miscarriage, but many don't want to wait this long' says Prfessor William Ledger, an expert in reproductive and developmental medicine. 'In fact, as long as a woman is ready psychologically, there's not much evidence for or against waiting'.
It's important to remember that most women who miscarry go on to have a healthy pregnancy, and research shows that your chances are still good if you've had several miscarriages.
'Investigations for recurrent miscarriage will be started if a woman miscarries three times in a row' says Professor Ledger. 'Although there are several known and treatable causes, in about half of couples who are in this situation, no cause is ever found'
Good preperation:
It's important to take care of yourselfin preperation for trying again. Eat a balanced diet, stop smoking, reduce your alcohol intake to one or two units a day (no more than two or three times a week) and take folic acid supplements as soon as you begin planning your pregnancy. Folic acid helps prevent neural tube defects such as spina bifida from developing in the embryo.
What happens when you become pregnant?
Becoming pregnant after a miscarriage may inspire mixed feelings, elation at knowing your body can still function, along with anxiety about the possible outcome.
Ask your obstetrician about the possibility of an early scan as some hospitals can offer a scan at six to seven weeks to check that the embryo has implanted properly. Although this offers no guarantee that the pregnancy will progress normaly, some women do find it reassuring to see the evidence of the pregnancy early on.
Take each day as it comes, and try to practice relaxation techniques, such as breathing exercises and yoga, and remember to stay positive.
2006-06-21 13:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage and I eventually ended up with a d&c. My cycle didn't come back for 60 days after that, but as soon as it did, we got pregnant the next cycle. I would say that as soon as you stop bleeding and get your next cycle, you could most likely try again. That's physically speaking, though. Emotionally you may need more time. (((hugs))) I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's not easy and my heart goes out to you. Just know that you're not alone and it will get better.
2006-06-21 11:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by maddiebud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that's terrible, i just had a miscarriage about 3 mths ago, and i was devastated! Start trying again when you are ready again...I know its a terrible time but your body is VERY fertile right now--after having a baby or a miscarriage.The day i had a miscarriage i bled alot also i didn't have cramps but it is very common. if the bleeding doesn't stop you will need to see a ob/gyn because it might have been a tubal pregnancy. sorry to hear this happen to you....good luck to both of us!
2006-06-21 12:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by dayna_2369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still 'bleeding badly'...it's TOO early. Wait until your body stabilizes from this trauma, and more importantly, take the time to grieve the loss of your baby.
2006-06-21 11:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.miscarriageassoctiation.com
There are message boards there and lots of helpful advice and women who have been in the same situation. Take a look honey.
I am so sorry for your loss xxxxxxx
2006-06-21 23:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question you should be asking your OBGYN....not yahoo members... this is serious stuff that effects your emotional and physical well being.
You should also consider some counseling as this has probably been a very traumatic loss for you and your husband.
Take care of yourself :)
2006-06-21 15:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋