I'm the perfect (text book) boyfriend. Clean,well groomed,articulte, funny,sensitive, G/F dont think so?.. Y?

Question

i cant understand it?

Answer 1

There's a fine line between a confident man and an egomaniac.... you sitting here telling us how perfect you are might put you over that line.

Answer 2

Back in the day, I used to think that things like grooming and a sense of humor should get me laid.

Turns out there's a lot more to it than that. There's humility, for one thing, which you don't appear to have. There's also patience, interesting things to say, maturity, and about 300 other things that improve your odds of getting some if you have it.

Oh, and most people only date people they're physically attracted to. There's always that, as well.

Spend less time thinking the world owes you a woman just because you're clean and funny, and more time becoming an interesting and well-rounded person.

Answer 3

I take it you are the 'moron' that your g/f was just saying about?
Perhaps then she is slightly jealous-- do you get a lot of atention? There is nothing wrong with a man that looks after himself-- be it well groomed hygenic = whats wrong with that? She would moan if you were dirty and didnt take great care of yourself.

You 2 need to sort this out. Perhaps you could teach her thre importance of self respect and she could teach you that it's not always about pleasing yourself but pleasing her too!!!

Answer 4

maybe your definition of what is perfect, text book, clean and well groomed , articulate and funny, sensitive is different from what others think is perfect. you are what you think is perfect but others may see you diferently.

Answer 5

ahh the eternal question... it goes like this women are never happy with what they have, hair colour, skin colour, boobs, bum ,thighs you name it...so you have the attributes of a perfect man, in your opinion, she sees them and she wants to change them to her ideal... ergo women never happy always want and will want something else.

my advice is this:- when she asks you "does my bum look big in these trousers?" Don't say "yes", say "No, it's your bum making the trousers look big, darling".

Answer 6

girls are hard to please hun....some like that kind of guy while others like the bad boy....it all depends on what she likes....also whats perfect to you may not be perfect to her....as her if it really bothers you

Answer 7

Because you think you are all those things! How uncool is that?!

Answer 8

try loving her instead of yourself

Answer 9

"Y"???????? Because she is ungrateful. Dump her and move on!

mb

Answer 10

you crazy kids! lol