this thing with my butt. He's obsessed with it. He wants to stick his you know and his finger in there. (tying to keep it PG) I've never done that before. What's you experience and if you haven't would you let someone??? I'm really shy about the anal thing.
2006-06-21 11:33:35 · 18 answers · asked by jessi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm still a virgin back there. And I heard it hurts.
2006-06-21 11:34:46 · update #1
He would leave me if I didn't. He loves me and would do anything for me.
2006-06-21 11:38:04 · update #2
Why do guys like it anywayz?
2006-06-21 11:40:39 · update #3
I ment wouldn't leave me oops
2006-06-21 11:51:08 · update #4
Anal sex is disgusting and it gives women no pleasure because I've been told it hurts. Besides that area was not meant to be used for sex, that is why women get no pleasure out of it, unless pain turns them on. It is a selfish male act. If he leaves you because you wont do it then he didnt really love you.
2006-06-21 12:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he truly loves you, he wouldnt leave you because you dont want to have anal sex.
anal sex is not natural because that is an EXIT where POOP comes out.....i would never try it because the idea of it makes me grossed out.
i hear some ppl say it feels good but it hurts like heck...so it's your call...but dont let a boy pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable with. if this guy leaves you because you dont let him stick his "thing" up you butt hole, then tell him to "f*ck off and have a nice life".
2006-06-21 18:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I enjoy it when my fiance rubs his on my butt and I would try it sometime. I heard that they sell a numbing lube that can be used back there. I have had a finger before, and that wasn't too bad...course it is no where the size of the other!
2006-06-21 18:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a relationship is 50/50.
If you're not comfortable with it, you gotta tell him.
If he was stupid enough to leave you over it, then did you really want him anyway?
I don't want anal either, and add that to the fact my husband is very well blessed in the male department...uh...no.
Just stand your ground...don't just do it and suffer because he wants to.
2006-06-21 18:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I had the same issue with a guy back when I was younger. All he wanted to do was that. I said no and that is all he wanted. He didnt want me, only that. So LEAVE him now, because he is probably gay or something! He doesnt love you!
2006-06-26 19:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by bran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to LEAVE you because your not comfortable with him VIOLATING your body then you need to kick him to the curb!
yes, it can hurt if you dont go slow for your first time and dont let your muscles get used to a cucumber there. i would suggest using a toy to get yourself used to it before the real thing. id also suggest using lots of lube and no, spit and sperm are NOT lube enough.
there are lots of toys for that area at the adult store. have fun looking for some and maybe you'll discover that you like it there.
2006-06-21 18:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend really loved you, he would not ask you to do something you feel uncomfortable with and needless yo say, would not leave you because you say no to it. Wake up and smell the roses. DUMP HIS *** and tell him to get a boyfriend if he wants to have anal sex.
2006-06-21 18:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head baby... If you dont want to, of course it'll hurt. Try to use lubricant and tell him to stick his finger b4. And you can also touch yourself while he does his thing.
2006-06-21 18:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does hurt...eh. im not into the whole anal thing either..you should try it out once, just to see what its like if youre really curious
2006-06-21 18:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a bit of enjoyment back there. I am a healthy straight guy. Don't know why I like it I just do!
2006-06-21 18:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋