should I accept?

Question

Ok, there is this guy who has a crush on me (i don't)
we have fought so many times because he's kind of selfish, and he always buys me gifts on speciaal occasion...we barely know eachother, and we only met in person twice..but chat online almost everyday. He bought me an ipod, he wants to give it to me, deep inside, I do not want to accept it. What do i say to be nice? what would you say? I'll give u 10 points if you give me a best answer. Please and thank you

Answer 1

Since you barely know him and you`re not interested in him , why should you accept an expensive gift from him, don`t you think it will give him reason to pursue you? what a waste of his time and yours.

Answer 2

If you barely know each other and you have no feelings for him listen to the deep down voice inside of you. Accepting expensive gifts will give him the wrong message. Saying a simple "thanks but no thanks, I just want to remain friends" will be turning down the gifts while hopefully maintaining the friendship, that is if you want the friendship. Accepting gifts is using him and when you get sick and tired of him hanging around a simple break off of the friendship will be very hurtful and difficult.

Answer 3

i dont need ur 10 points but if u can take that ipod and send it to me so i can help u in any other matter of ur life... by the way if u want to be nice then take it he bought it for u..y r u not taking it?
and if u want some selfrespect or things like that then find any other person for those things.... dont avoid good friends u can keep it... its up to u...

Answer 4

I guess there is nothing wrong in meeting someone and finding out why they like you so much and there is nothing wrong in accepting gifts, He must be buying them because it makes him happy......I guess nothing wrong in trying.