why? im a nice person, im not out to piss anybody off or make enemies. but everywhere i go, nobody pays any attention to me or they act like they are better than me, which makes me have to hate them. i beleive in do unto others before they can do unto you. i guess hating people is my way of explaining why nobody likes me so i dont have to put any effort into getting them not to hate me. is that a good way to think? how can i change?
2006-06-21 11:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am friendly to everyone, even people i know i wont like. but i give them a chance. its like everyone knows how desperate i am to make some new friends.
2006-06-21 11:07:51 · update #1
i don't know, because i pretty much have the same problem...i know how you feel. but if your friendly to people and they treat you like sh!t then screw em. your obviously not unlikeable because i like you a lot. so maybe your just meeting the wrong people.
2006-06-21 20:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No that's definitely not a good way to think.You should not hate anyone,because when you get old you're gonna shrivel up into a hateful old prune who no one will like.Besides the more you hate the people for hating you the more you'll attract people that hate you.Try this for a day ,disregard all the people that hate and are so full of themselves that you want to punch their lights out and try to focus on the ones that love you,like you parents .Oh and shaking your head at the people who think they're greater than you is a great way to piss them off.But you have to really look like they're not great to you for it to work best.
2006-06-21 11:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Actualmente, Disfruto Siendo Lycantropica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the one with the problem... I encounter people every day who think that they are better than me, or so it seems. I think people look down on us because of age difference, job experience, income, or appearance. I try not to stoop to their level , and I treat them like i do anyone else - with respect and courtesy. Sometimes I like to think that my effort could change the way some people think and make the world a kinder place.
I guess there is the possibility that your demeanor or attitude may have a reflection on how people judge you. try to be kind and usually you will receive the same.
2006-06-21 11:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by Toby D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attitude. good people will appreciate your attitude...you will always run into people who think they are better than others. What makes a person better? looks? money? assets? fitness? try having a good attitude and see what happens. but remember you are going to have to try, and I emphasize try. good luck! by the way, if you listen to music online check out this radio station, it might be uplifting to you. http://www.thehousefm.com/thehouse.asp
2006-06-21 11:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by TheShield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'm better than you and I am obviously paying attention to you right now, do you hate me?
2006-06-21 11:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess be more friendly to others maybe you'll make more friends.
2006-06-21 11:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt hate people its like murder.
you and my brother should hang out together, coz hes got the same problem..
2006-06-21 11:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world. i hate everyone, even my parents and even friends, i just hate them a little less. dont change. be the way you are around other people. *throws a broken bottle at you*.
2006-06-21 11:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Terry The Terrible 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋