Is it ok to have sex with my wife while she is sleeping ? is that raping ?

Answer 1

if she can sleep through it... ummmmmm

Answer 2

No its not ok to have sex with your wife while she is sleeping because that just tells her you are selfish and you are ruining your future chances of great sex!

Rape is confined to force. If you are forcing it against her will, yes, it's considered rape.

Try to join a mens group who can help you with this problem.

Answer 3

Dude that is so not ok!!!! Yes it is rape!!! Is she awake to consent to this? No!! You keep your pecker to yourself unless she is awake to say ok. Man, If I was your wife and found out I would kick your a** to the curb. You do stuff like that and it breaks all trust
You are just sick and wrong.
"Every woman has the right to control her own body and to make decisions about having sex, using birth control, becoming pregnant and having children. She does not lose these rights if she marries."

Answer 4

It is rape! BEcause she is not there and consenting. Just because you got married does not mean it is okay to have sex without her consent. It is wrong, and whywould you want to do it anywayS? Does she not want to when she is awake. Dr. Phil had a show on this and it is rape! The guy got her pregnant while she was sleeping. How creepy.

Answer 5

These kinds of questions make me wish I could get as far away from humanity as I possibly can. You can't be serious. Have you done this? If so, you must be hung like a fly if she didn't wake up. If she is not conscious and cannot say "yes", then it is rape. Get a life, get a clue, get some ******* therapy.

Answer 6

I don't want to make light of your problem BUT if you can have sex with your wife and she sleeps through it...???? On a more serious note..do NOT wake your wife up because YOU want sex..take a cold shower...watch some stupid t.v. or something.

Answer 7

It is not raping as long as it is consentual. I think it is thrilling being woken up to something like that. It is nice and fun and sometimes a shock but a good one. If she pushes u off of her or if she tries to get away then dont persue it any farther that could be rape their but as long as she is enjoying it i honestly think it spices thing up in the relationship

Answer 8

I THINK IT'S OK IF YOU ASK HER BEFORE HAND....MY HUSBAND TOLD ME IT'S A TURN ON FOR HIM TO DO THAT AND ASKED IF AT ANY TIME HE FELT LIKE MAKING LOVE TO ME WHILE I'M SLEEP IF IT WAS OK WITH ME AND I SAID OF COURSE.....IF HE WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED ME I PROBABLY WOULD HAVE BEEN REALLY STARTLED TO WAKE UP AND FIND MY HUSBAND ON TOP OF ME MAKING LOVE TO ME WITHOUT KNOWING IT AT FIRST.... YOU COULD HAVE INTERCOURSE WHILE SHE IS ASLEEP BUT UNLESS SHE IS A HEAVY SLEEPER, SHE WILL MOST LIKELY WAKE UP AND ASK WHAT ARE YOU DOING? WHICH WOULD PROBABLY BRING HER TO ASK WHY YOU WOULD WANT TO MAKE LOVE WITHOUT HER EVEN KNOWING OR CONSCIOUSLY INVOLVED.....REMEMBER THAT IT IS ONLY CONSIDERED RAPE IF IT'S NOT CONSENSUAL SEX BETWEEN TWO ADULTS....IF YOU ASK AND SHE SAYS IT'S OK THEN HOW CAN YOU RAPE THE WILLING?

Answer 9

She can't consent while she's sleeping. That makes it rape. It's just as wrong as having sex with someone who's unconscious.

Answer 10

no its' not okay to have sex with someone who is sleeping. it's not rape cause she's your wife but the last thing i would want to do is wake up and find someone thrusting in me in the morning. it's scary...

Answer 11

only if she allows it, but if she wakes up and does not want it it is considered rape.
and for some of these people saying it is not rape because she is your wife, there is a law against it, if a woman dose not consent, husband or not, it is considered rape.