My girlfriend constantly naggs me over everything I do. I cant do anything right. Even when i'm really trying she still finds fault with something.
She nagged at me for not using a plate for my sandwich...then when I try to please her and use a plate she tells me i'm using the wrong plate. IT'S TOO BIG A PLATE.
I try to help out cooking but can never do it the way she demands it. I think she really is starting to hate me.
PLEASE HELP.
2006-06-21 10:44:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you put up with someone like that? And don't say "because I love her". Would you let a friend treat you that way? Probably not, so why a woman?
There's nothing I can say or do to help you - you have to do that yourself! Get your self-esteem back and know that you deserve better. Know that there are women out there who would totally appreciate a guy that tries to accommodate her wishes and wants to help out in the kitchen. You can do better babydoll - but you have to know and believe that!
2006-06-21 10:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by thersa33 4 · 10⤊ 7⤋
There are certain women that can't help but nitpick on every single little thing that comes across our paths. She needs to find something that will keep her occupied so that she has no time or energy to find fault.
Also you could talk to her about getting help, she has control issues (which a lot of women do)....or you can break it down to her-"change your ways or I say goodbye"-it might be the wake up call that she needs.
2006-06-21 10:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by sylvergyrlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possibilities:
1. There is an underlying problem she has in her life which is manifesting itself in her nagging.
2. You genuinely have bad habits around the house and actually are a bit rubbish.
3. She's nuts.
Either way, you should be talking to her - not us!
2006-06-21 10:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by The Wandering Blade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to take the easy way out & blame her apparent mood on PMS. But, she might just be having a bad day. Or, the best bet... there's probalby something bothering her that has nothing to do with your sandwich or plate. You might just have to do some digging to figure out what's going on!
2006-06-21 10:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by jsew22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has some other issues with you. Women dont "nag" for nothing. You need to find out what else is going on. You both need to sit down and have a heart to heart.
2006-06-21 10:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand, some women tend to be seriously pathetic that they just like to pick on silly stuff such as using the wrong plate or not buying the right cheese. dont get me wrong, im not saying your girlfriend is bad, but apparently women dont understand that there are more serious problems in life that they should be worried about such as the hunger in Africa or the number of innocent children that die of everyday because theyre country is at war.
If I was you, id tell her to get her act up straight, and to be nice if she expects something nice in return as well.
2006-06-21 10:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Zwerg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say mommy? That type of behavior is learned. Look at her parents. I'd bet her mother works her father over like that.
It may be time to declare that you are not willing to be molded
into whatever her concept of a man should be. Add that she needs to stop this or she may be talking to an empty room.
2006-06-21 11:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she hates you but she obviously has a set way of doing things. Nagging is something that women don't like doing, but find that whenever we ask someone to do something it's called "Nagging"
Take it as a compliment she has high standards, and she's with you so you must be doing something right :)
2006-06-21 10:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is a control freak who is insecure.
One thing for certain, she doesn't fancy you one little bit. There is no future in the relationship.
If you need her for sex I recommend you line up an alternative supplier and transfer you custom. If you don't need her for sex act immediately and without compunction.
Women like that ruin it for other women and if they are not dealt with decisively they would ruin your entire life.
2006-06-21 11:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a controlling person that probably was controlled the same way by her parent while growing up. She will not change.
2006-06-21 11:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by September 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only the girlfriend u can move on why put up with mess look at it as easy come easy go she doesnt want to be bothered or just dont know how to treata good man
2006-06-21 10:51:12 · answer #11 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋