I have a boyfriend and i love him very much, but there is another guy that has been my friend for years and he likes me. Well i love my boyfriend and i recently lost my virginity with him and never had sex with anyone else. My other friend wants to have sex with me while i'm still with my boyfriend and i'm not tempted but i kinda think that we should because we share a special conection.
2006-06-21 10:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by babi 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.
That is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide? Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?
My guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.
Now, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.
On the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time. If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.
Overall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
2006-06-21 10:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Beeeen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have sex with the friend.
Husbands and boyfriends come and go through life but a good friend that thinks you admire him so much that you don;t want to mess up the friendship will be nice to you throughout your entire life, unless you do something to ruin the friendship.
Sex often ruins friendships.
Once your friend gets a wife or girlfriend he may feel too guilty about having sex with you to keep you around.
2006-06-21 10:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Valg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking yourself this question? if you have a boyfriend, love him, and are not tempted...whats the problem? Sounds like you are tempted but know it is wrong. Dont hurt yourself, your boyfriend or anyone else by cheating on him. If you love him very much; you shouldnt be thinking this way!
2006-06-21 10:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by hotmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way, but you need to stop having sex. I don't say this because I am a bible thumper or a prude, but just the fact that you have to ask this question says that you are not ready and that you were not ready to lose your virginity and you don't really love this guy you are with.
2006-06-21 10:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by SAMANTHA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex with someone else, i think you should let your boyfriend know. Or better yet...get another girl and have a foursome?? I don't think your boyfriend would appreciate you doing that with your friend and if you DO it, you will have it on your conscience if you do not let him know. Eventually he will find out too.
2006-06-21 10:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by okronbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you are thinking, you shouldn't have a boyfriend. Don't hurt the guy. Break up with him and sleep with as many guys as you want.
2006-06-21 10:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by B-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "really" loved your boyfriend you wouldn't even consider doing such a thing. That being said, you obviously don't know what love is, so f**k it, sleep with whoever you want.
2006-06-21 10:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by allknowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna create confusion and drama then go ahead and sleep with your friend...guilt is a b**ch, though. I hope you're prepared for that, especially if you really love your boyfriend.
2006-06-21 10:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don"t do it. if you and your friend share a special connection then that connection will be there rather you have sex with him or not so i vote not.
2006-06-21 10:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Dena C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR BF AS YOU CLAIM, YOU WILL NEVER GIVE YOUR SELF TO ANOTHER .YOUR OTHER FRIEND DOESN'T LOVE OR REGARD YOU THAT WHY HE IS ASKING ABOUT SEX . DON'T DO IT WITH HIM. HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.
2006-06-21 10:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋