My wife wont sleep with me unless i give her money for it each time , what can i do?

Answer 1

that's very bad, why did you marry someone like that in the first place?! that's crazy! just get out, who wants a wife who acts like a whore?

Answer 2

Dont dump her that's just her way of excitement and fantasy. Some people has worse and she maybe dont need a lot, just as long as she got some money. Maybe that what put her in the mood because in her mind she see herself as a pro that need to get paid for her services. So just humor her because if the shoe was on the other foot she would do the same...

Answer 3

Counseling. There really is no reason for it. You two should be sharing money anyway if you are married. What's the point? Does she want to feel like a hooker? You should maybe kick her out of the house afterwards saying your wife will be home any minute.

Answer 4

I heard a story one time where a husband gave his wife some money for sex and she saved that money and then used it to take them on a very nice vacation. But then why is she asking for money for something that should be consensual and pleasant for both. Try finding out from her what she wants from love making.

Answer 5

So your wife is a two-bit prostitute. You can do several things. The first is solictating prostitution (if you are a real mean person). Check you local statues to see if it applies. I would file for divorce. Selling it for money or consideration is hooking - pretty much plain and simple.

Answer 6

Save your money, see if she is cheaper than a street whore.
See if you can't work out some kind of deal with her. A special family rate of some kind.
You could just stop handing over the cash, and by pass her offer of sex for pay.

Answer 7

well hun, your name says it all! you probably broke her heart some where down the line!! that happens, ya know, some women want nothing to do with there husbands if they've hurt them. they become numb and resentful. she might have to put herself in a different mind frame when it comes to sex with you so paying her gives her incentive. no its not normal to do that (sounds like you need extensive counseling) maybe think if there is anything you have done, seriously ask her if you've hurt her and this is a reason you have to bribe her for sex. or maybe, she is just bored or tired of the same routine. try blowing her mind by switching it up a little!! sorry buddy! communicate!!

Answer 8

Get a second job lol......seriously why is she doing that? Does she have a job? Is it role play for her that creates her fantasy of being a lady of the night and what does she do with the money? Is it spent on household stuff or is it her personal spending money?

Answer 9

LOL so how much are we talking about here.. she has got a great racket going I wish I thought of that! LOL

wait until she goes to sleep and then take the money back out of her purse or whatever then you are not out any money.

Answer 10

r u that bad in bed she wants $ or do u give her $ at all and she feels the only way to get it is by making u give $ for sex u need to tell her your not a customer and she's not a ho if she wants $ for sex tell her hell no watch a porn and do yourself tell her she really needs to stop because what she wont do another woman will gladly be happy to do

Answer 11

divorce her azz, man she's acting more like a paid escort then a damn wife. what are you 80, ifyou are then she must be like 25 or something. but man the next time she says that either tell her to choose from one thing being your prostitute or being your wife choose. if she chooses the latter than I would f.u.c.k the s.h.i.t out of her and then give her like a dollar and tell her that its all her puzzy was worth.