my problem is that i have a perverted cousin he started grabbin my butt and he would call me and tell me he loved me and that he wanted to have sex it all started when i was 11 and know im going to be 15 but he hasnt done anything anymore and only says hi and bye to me now what should i do ???? also no one knows about this only my closest friends know
2006-06-21 10:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by hYhpHylAdYz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try not to be alone with him. If he continues this behavior, tell an adult.
2006-06-21 10:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the problem the fact he stopped harrassing you? Or is it the fact that you still have to see him after everything he did to you.
The best thing you can do in either case is ignore him. Also, if he is an adult and was an adult at the time this occured, you can press charges against him.
Tell your parents if you have any and if not, a trusted adult. Perhaps you can also stand up to him in the pressence of someone else and tell him that what he did was gross and wrong.
He, or anyone else for this matter, hasnt the right to be touching you in any way or place without your consent. I hope you resolve matters quickly.
2006-06-21 17:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone, that doesn't sound right for a cousin to do. There is something wrong with him. If he says anything like that again go tell your parents. that sounds scary
2006-06-21 17:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay whats the problem if he is not bothering you anymore? Does he still grab you? You really didn't explain what the problem was. Apparently the problem is solved...right? You said he only says hi and by to you now. What do you want him to do? Maybe he is really really embarassed now.
2006-06-21 17:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by cc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell your parents
Second, if he EVER even suggests anything again, ask him if he know what happens to sexual offenders. Tell him to check it out before he ever mentions something again.
DO NOT STAND FOR THIS! You do not deserve to be treated this way!
2006-06-21 17:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didnt u tell back when it first started if he isnt messing withu know leave it alone maybe he was just being an jerk and didnt understand what he was doing but now does
2006-06-21 17:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ever does it again, tell your parents. Oh, and in case you didnt think about it when you wrote the question, anyone in the world who speaks english knows about it now.
2006-06-21 17:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Wizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let it go if he doesn't do those things anymore, but if he does at all you need to tell your parents.
2006-06-21 17:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. He is verbally abusing you. Get some help and never be alone with him. He is a perv.
2006-06-21 17:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetely tell your parents so that they can talk to his parents. And do NOT be alone with him. Even though nothing has happened, doesn't mean that he won't try it.
2006-06-21 17:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by shesaidpaul@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋