seriously, I am a confrontational person. If I think someone is trying to take advantage of me or "get one over on me" I get nasty. This can be a good trait except when it carries over to my personal relationships. What are some things that will help me not argue with my fiance as much and not always feel like I have to be right or have the last word? I really dont' want to be like this anymore.
2006-06-21 10:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by its still me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know someone very dear to me who is the same way...and I know its preventing her from having a happy , joyous life...Humble yourself...give someone the benefit of the doubt, if they prove themselves wrong then you have all the right to bi+ch, and they can't complain to much about it...when it comes to your fiancee, just understand you can be the most beautiful person in his life but your mouth can make things real ugly real quick...and if you can't control your mouth the ugliness is going to overwhelm the love he has for you....don't let that be the humbling experience that you learn a lesson from....it will be to late by then...he would have already given you your last chance by then...your beautiful to him, the best thing you can do to keep it that way is nothing...learn to hold your tongue when you need to.....you wouldn't have asked if you weren't willing to try..good luck.
2006-06-21 10:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to take a lot of effort on your part to over come a lifetime of behaviour.
You need to think more, before you react to a situation. You may have to bite your lip, before you pop off on some matter that gets your goat.
It won't be easy, but anything worthwhile, never is. Just do it in small steps, one at a time. The journey of a thousand miles, begins with the first step.
By being honest with yourself, and realizing your problem, you have taken that first step.
So think before you get nasty. you often get better results with honey, than with vinegar.
Good Luck.
2006-06-21 17:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is, just shut up and give it some time to chill out. when you feel yourself getting mad, leave for 15 minutes. make that a rule in your arguements.
2006-06-21 17:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to shut your big mouth sometime. That's not even a smartass answer, just shut the hell up!
2006-06-21 17:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ima.ho.bag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Stop...
2006-06-21 17:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a biotch.
2006-06-21 17:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by 707bayboy4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, B*tch!
2006-06-21 17:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋