A PERSON WHO HAS A COOL PERSONALITY, BUT JUST HAD AN ABORTION AND DOESN'T FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT. IF THE SAME SITUATION OCCURED TO HER AGAIN SHE WILL AGAIN DO IT ALL OVER. WOULD YOU STILL BE THAT PERSON FRIEND.
2006-06-21 10:03:00 · 31 answers · asked by babi 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i think if they keep getting one as a form of birth control than yes
but
if they were raped, or if the baby was going to hurt the mother or kill her when it was born, or if the baby would have been very sick than no i dont or if the child was very young than yes (we had a girl who was 8 and her stepdad raped her and she got preggy...but it was to late for the abortion :( poor child)
but as a form of birth control like the pill
no definatly not...
2006-06-21 11:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah=brokenteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person wouldn't be bad. It's just the act she's doing is bad. You should talk to her about abortion so she doesn't do it next time. Discourage it because she's killing an innocent baby that hasn't even got a chance to live it's life. It's just another pair of eyes that will never see again, lips that will never speak, ears that will never hear, and hands that will never touch. I would still be that person's friend, but i would definately talk to her and tell her it's wrong to abort a baby. The next time this happens, she could just give the child away instead of abortion. There are so many people out there that can't have children who desparately wish they had someone to love. It would benefit those people, you friend, and the child's life.
2006-06-21 21:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by dude. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an abortion, that's bad and you don't feel guilty??? Now that makes it worse. I think the person might not feel bad because she doesn't realize that they just took away someone's life, which as we all know, takes a very bad person to do. But if the person has a psychological disorder, she probably has an excuse for not feeling bad.
Remain the person's friend? I guess so, but I'd make sure she doesn't influence me negatively and that she never repeats it but I wouldn't even in the first place allow her to commit such an act!!!
2006-06-27 21:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if she is willing to have another abortion then she should use birth control what's so hard about that? I am completely against abortion and I dont' think she is a bad person, but just STUPID. There are many options out there, adoption, birth control, etc.
2006-06-21 20:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pretty Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt have alot of respect for her just because i belive that if you were big enough/mature enough to have sex unprotected and conceive a baby then your tough enough to go through with the pregnancy and have that baby....that baby had no say in what you were doing or nothing so i really think abortion is the easy selfish way out. but even if you have an abortion no that does not make you a bad person but it sure will make you feel like it so think twice
2006-06-21 17:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on why she had the abortion. If it was because she didnt want the baby that is wrong and i wouldnt talk to her. I am 100%against abortion and so is my hubby, butunder certain statisics abortion is okay. If the baby wasnt going to live or if the mother would loose her life during birth Its okay or if maybe you were rapped and sometype of disese was gave to the baby.
2006-06-21 22:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl_0242002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that its the mother's own choice. If she doesn't want the baby, who is to force her to have it? No One! Its her choice. If she can't provide for that child, or was raped, or some other logical reason, I think any kind person would understand why the person would have an abortion.
2006-06-21 19:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by New York bound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the situation, but if she has an abotrion everytime she gets pregnant then i would tell her to keep her legs closed or use a condom next time! I use to know this girl that had at least 6 abortions in one yr, she kept getting pregnant by her boyf, but didn't want to have it so she had a abortion everytime, her boyf's brother's girlfriend, asked her way she kepted chooseing to do so, and the girl said, she hates kids and don't ever want any! well then i told her to keep her legs crossed or use a condom next time! i dont talk to the girl anymore, cuz she really disguised me!
2006-06-21 18:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by renae8003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am 100% against abortion. I have a friend that had one and I have lost respect of her and don't talk to her too often. We have been friends for 20+ yrs. There are people out there willing to take babies.
2006-06-21 17:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that she isnt a bad person. Now if she just did it because she didn't want the kid so that she could go party then that is wrong. If she is that desperate not to have a kid, then she should have it and give it up for adoption. That way, someone who can't have kids can adopt the baby. My fiance and I have friends who have been desperately trying to have kids and they get pregnant and then end up miscarrying.
2006-06-21 17:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋