I just recently had a miscarriage and I told my boyfriend who is the father and because he doesnt show his feelings I'm not sure how he feels or even how he is feeling. Asking him doesnt work. I mean he was happier than me to find out that I was pregnant. I just dont know what to do.
2006-06-21 09:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by liyah2hot_2001 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i've been in you situation before and my man was the same way. sometimes it is hard for certain people to react the way that you might think is normal. But to them their way is just to hold it in. try and talk to him and let him know how you feel..
2006-06-21 09:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by mamas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then if he was happy about the pregnancy you know he is not happy about the miscarriage I'm sure. Everyone grieves different and this is the same thing almost - it is. I'm sorry this happened to you. It happens to women a lot and you can just keep on trying. I would consider a miscarriage God's way of telling me "this isn't meant to be yet." But that doesn't necessarily mean that is going to make either of you feel better. I'm sorry.
2006-06-21 09:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss... you guys should go to a counselor and see if that helps. He may just not want to bring you down any more than you are. Good luck.
2006-06-21 09:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this "macaw" person is kinda stange...
you don't know how he feels about you NOT having a baby?
if that's what your asking, just tell him that it WAS a MISCARRIAGE and ask him if he wants to try again
2006-06-21 09:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Silence Dogood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can write down a couple of questions and then ask him to write down his answers. Best of luck
2006-06-21 09:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by BeBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be his way of dealing with his feelings by not talking about them. give him time to deal with it, don't pester him about it, it will only make him withdraw more. just show him love and support and he should do the same for you. Sorry about your loss! :)
2006-06-21 09:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time men don't always want to let their grief show
2006-06-21 09:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better luck next time.
2006-06-26 01:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get pregnant again
2006-06-21 09:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWALLOW HARDER!!!
=)
2006-06-21 09:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋