I met this guy about 4 years ago online. Weve never met but I fell in love with him and we have a good friendship. The problem, when we met he was married but going through a rough time. Now hes not married, but I am. He knows how I feel. I love my husband, but I've always loved this guy. So, what should I do?
2006-06-21 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by IT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I read this right, you got married AFTER you decided you loved this guy from the internet. You must not love him as much as you think, because if you did, you would have waited for him and you would never have taken those vows with someone else. If you want this cyber-dude that much, have the guts to divorce your current husband instead of becoming a cheating whore.
2006-06-21 10:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3-some
2006-06-21 16:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this..if you loved the guy as much as you said. you would of waited for him to sort out his marriage then you could of had a relation with the guy. you married your husband because you love him. now the guy is back on the scene alone..its easy for an out sider to come to the conclusion that you should stay with your husband. it may not be easy to walk away from this guy especialy after 4 years. but did he leave his wife for you. no. even though they were haveing problems. theres nothing wrong in being friends with this guy and speaking with him. but for your own marriage and life you have now i would not suggest an affair. because you could lose both men. and is it worth it. oh and yes you can love 2 men. just be lucky in your decition. and i wish you luck.
2006-06-21 16:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have an affair. You are married now.If you love your husband why would you want to hurt him like that.
2006-06-21 17:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about this you may need to re-think if you love your husband
2006-06-21 16:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by MeMyselfandI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋