that abandoned me and unborn baby? like, write to a newspapr? what else can i do?
2006-06-21 09:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
he decided hed rather go back and f*** his ex girlfriend after i told him i was pregnant.
2006-06-21 12:04:42 · update #1
Kill him!
2006-06-21 09:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by bigo420247 2 · 7⤊ 5⤋
Revenge is wrong, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth will only leave the whole world blind and hungry. But justice is another thing. Apply for child support and deprive him of contact with the child he deserted so willingly.
Brake fluid can be bought from any garage and when smeared on the top of his car slowly erodes all the metal. Dog poo under his front door/car door handle.
Find where he works and paste a poster up outside with his photo saying "Wanted-Dad That abandoned his baby before it was born. Dad not wanted but support money needed. Thanks for the baby" LOTS OF THEM!
send photos of strange animal creatures to his parents with "from your loving grandchild" written in bad handwriting on the front.
Oh revenge is SOoo wrong yet so fun!!!
2006-06-21 09:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always do what Samantha's character did in Sex and the City.
She made a letter sized flyer in hot pink with his photo on it. Underneath it she wrote something nasty like Cheating Bastard. She walked in on him going down on on another woman. She then taped them up on all the phone posts and boards that she could find in the City, handed them out etc.....
Try to slap him with support charges. Your baby needs to be cared for, and if he doesn't want to be there physically, then he should pay for his part and do the right thing.
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. Men can be bastards. But just remember, your baby may be from him, but your baby is NOT him. You don't need him. You need each other.
I am always inspired by single moms. My mom was one, with 3 kids at the age of 21 (she was 16 when she had me).
2006-06-21 09:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by microgrl_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out a full page add in the local paper and put his picture on it with the caption "Girls, Beware! - He left me and my unborn baby." Then make flyers with the same message and post them ALL over your city.
Also, make sure you try to get child support out of him. I do not know what the steps are to do this as I don't have children, but ask around.
2006-06-21 09:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Melissa♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that you might regret in the future.
If you try to embarrass him, and succeed, you will only make things worse for you and your child.
Just try to understand he is as scared and confused as you are. Talk to him, talk to mutual friends, try to find a mid-way solution that works out for both of you.
This is a hard moment for the two of you.
Be easy on him and on yourself. Once you both realize what is happening, things will be easier to be handled by both of you.
Go a little step at a time.
Nevertheless, don't forget to get some professional legal advice.
2006-06-21 11:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court. Get child support then personally go to his job and serve him the papers with everyone in view saying at the same time you are a deadbeat dad really loud.
2006-06-21 09:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what made him abandon u both! if there isnt a very strong issue for which he left ! it is better for u both that he left ,he would be of little help anyways! but if the reson is strong eneough then u must tell that (or atleast review urself if it is intimate) and then we can think whether we should do something about it .
2006-06-21 10:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though this is not a philosophical question, I will do you the immense favour of answering it. The best thing, both for you and for your child, is to let him go. Vengefulness costs a lot of energy. You have much better ways to spend it.
2006-06-21 09:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by sauwelios@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still have some of his stuff that he might want back? Get rid of it. tell somebody he knows about his nasty hygiene and make sure that person spreads the rumor. See if then anyone will want to date him. lol. and many many more ideas come to mind...
2006-06-21 09:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by missgirlie21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can embarrass a sorry specimen, like that. You might paint his crime on his car, though.
2006-06-21 09:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by tex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, did he know you were pregnant? Did you also tell him that it would be best if he were to leave, then tell everyone that he just left you?
2006-06-21 09:59:11 · answer #11 · answered by jeremy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋