I know how to get my way by being sneaky & I know it's wrong but I don't mean to hurt anyone. I have a good heart & soul.
2006-06-21 09:03:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are being a little vague, do you manipulate them to get things you want? Is it something that you shouldnt be doing? Are you lying? Manipulation is a broad based talent. It can be used sparingly in a fast paced world of jobs, transactions, business deals etc.. however if you are using this in a personal life to get things for yourself that are uneccesary or putting people out for your own happiness then I would call that evil. Why do you need to manipulate would be my question. Is it because you dont work hard enough to get things? Are people particularly hard on you and dont offer you enough? For awhile go on a "manipulation diet" use it sparingly only for hard core things such as interviews or business, see what comes, you may find that you dont need manipulation and you may feel better about your choices1 Good luck.
2006-06-21 09:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off,if you are a good person with a heart and soul towards others,then you would have no need whats so ever to manipulate others,you yourself admitted it was wrong of you doing so,then stop it! It is trying to get or be in control of others and it only really shows malice in your heart that is coming out.Called selfishness,when you try to get your way with others by your actions.It is definitely time to wake up and smell the roses here Remember do unto others as you would want to be done!Good Luck to you.
2006-06-21 16:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people who others just feel attracted to and will more easily bend in their direction. In these cases, sometimes it is easy to just go along manipulating others for your own ends. But u've got to kick the habit 'coz in tthe long run pple would end up getting hurt and shun u for it. Besides, that is not what a good friend will do!!
2006-06-21 16:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad you lack in the grammar department. You sound all of 10 years old. If you had a good heart, you wouldn't manipulate people - but chances are, you're really not that good at it so thanks for the 2 points. Oh, and GROW UP.
2006-06-21 16:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can answer for yourself
rather have a manipulator than pure hatred.
and if we all were honest with ourselves and others we would admit that we all do this on occasion or all the time. noone is perfect and I'm proud to hear someone admit to it and say it.
thanks
im a smoker promised to quit, know it's bad but i like it and i dont want to quit even if I die of cancer
so there
boy what a cleansing.
2006-06-21 16:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had a good heart and soul then you would not manipulate others! it's wrong!
2006-06-21 16:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that nobody got hurt in the process, then all's right with the world.
people always manipulate other people anyway, with or without any purpose.
2006-06-21 16:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by wongzx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not evil, but it's sure not nice the way you act. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if someone did the same thing to you.
2006-06-21 16:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not evil but you are aware of your manipulation. All I can say is karma is going to suck for you.
2006-06-21 16:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have much promise as a corporate executive. Your smart but you use it the wrong way.
2006-06-21 16:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋